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*resario2010
writes:Okay so there's this girl I have been talking for a while online and we meet and it was great. Well anyways I really liked her and explained to her that we won't be seeing each other for while, so in my desperation I asked her to be my girlfriend. She read my message but she said that it would be difficult because we live so far away and then she told me how would I imagine our relationship. She also said that we live so far away but we will make it work.So anyways she said that it would take time to develop a relationship, but I really don't think she has ever had a boyfriend before. Anyways I just get upset when I see people that date for like a month and end up in a relationship and it's always like this with me I have to work so hard to get into one, which I don't understand because I am a pretty good looking guy with a good personality. Anyways what do you guys think, is she being nice and rejecting me or does she really need time like she told me, also I asked her via text message... I know I know, she said why did you not tell me in person. Anyways any advice would be appreciated !!
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reader, Presario2010 +, writes (8 September 2012):
Presario2010 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionPretty far almost cross country, but for me when i like someone i usually like them for a long time and i usually dont give up on a relationship, besides i have dated other girls and this girl seems to be someone that i would like to be with more than anyone, we have been talking for about 6 months now and i still get that feeling when we talk or message, but i guess this can also be one sided so i we never know she might find someone else or you know, but if i show her how much i care about her and if i'am always there no matter what, who knows.... But i guess not anyone can keep a long distance relationship, so i guess this is another test but i think i would wait for her forever..... Talking to her through messages i get the feeling that she is protecting herself and wants to be with me but shes scared of SOMETHING, i dont know what. She has opened up to me so the more we talk and spend time the more we feel like it's going somewhere, i don't know but i care about her so we will see.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (7 September 2012):
 LDRs suck.... are you sure you want to have an LDR with someone you barely know?
how far apart are you?
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reader, Presario2010 +, writes (7 September 2012):
Presario2010 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell thanks for the advice, I guess time will tell'm :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2012): most people who jump into a relationship after a few weeks dont last because they get too serious before getting to properly know eachother and then realise they arent compatible
being in a relationship isnt about jumping in head first just to say ohhh ive got a girlfriend plus everyone is different its much easier to get to know someone living close by so maybe they get together sooner, you and this girl live far apart so its guna take much longer to get to know eachother to be ready to say we are a couple
try not to rush any relationship your in and to be patient by getting to know the person
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