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What would you think of an otherwise decent woman having a one night stand in the distant past?

Q.   If you were dating a woman of good standing, moral fibre and integrity.... what would you think of her if you found out she made one big mistake several years ago in the form of a one night stand found from the internet? Would who she is today be ...

A.   11 September 2012: okay so, i'am a man and you need a mans perspect on this, if i found out but i really liked the girl, i would be upset but i would value her honesty and realize that everyone makes mistakes and the past is the past, you said you werent as smart back ... (read in full...)

I'm worried about my friend with her much older, possessive boyfriend

Q.   The situation is this. I am friends with a work colleague, and lately we have gotten a bit closer, so she has started to confide in me about her relationship. I've heard gossip before about her partner, people have mentioned that he is a great de...

A.   11 September 2012: Yes this does seem lika a typical domestic violence issue, these are extremly diffiuclt cases to deal with. If she wanted she could have left him a long time ago, i dealt with this also myself not first hand but i have seen this kind of thing ... (read in full...)

It's not like it used to be between us and I don't trust my judgement, so what should I do?

Q.   thank you for taking the time to answer! Basically, me and Him are in a long distnace relationship. We have been together for just over seven months, not met yet. Lately, I've begun to feel a little uneasy with the relationship. At the begining,...

A.   9 September 2012: I'am also in a long distance relationship but my thing is that iam the guy not the girl.................but for example when he talks to you do YOU also answer the way he answers you or is he the one putting in the effort and you just love to hear ... (read in full...)

Does she want a relationship?

Q.   Okay so there's this girl I have been talking for a while online and we meet and it was great. Well anyways I really liked her and explained to her that we won't be seeing each other for while, so in my desperation I asked her to be my girlfriend. ...

A.   8 September 2012: Pretty far almost cross country, but for me when i like someone i usually like them for a long time and i usually dont give up on a relationship, besides i have dated other girls and this girl seems to be someone that i would like to be with more ... (read in full...)

Does she want a relationship?

Q.   Okay so there's this girl I have been talking for a while online and we meet and it was great. Well anyways I really liked her and explained to her that we won't be seeing each other for while, so in my desperation I asked her to be my girlfriend. ...

A.   7 September 2012: Well thanks for the advice, I guess time will tell'm :)... (read in full...)

I know its wrong but I'm a control freak with my girlfriend

Q.   Hello there. Let's get straight to the topic. I'm a control freak. I accept it, as it seems quite obviuos to me. I want to know, where exaclty my gf is every hour of the day. I want to know, who she's with and what they are doing. One day she...

A.   4 August 2012: I'am in the same situation, i just started dating a girl and i feel like a control freak and i try to contact her and even spy on her on facebook and see that she is not talking to other guys online, but lately i'am just doing my own thing getting ... (read in full...)

Why do girls flirt with other guys and ignore the one they have the crush on?

Q.   Well i have noticed this recently, it's not only happened to me but to others. Well i noticed that when a girl likes a guy she does everything to ignore him and get away from him, even when the guy just passes her and says hello, the girl doesnt ...

A.   31 July 2012: Yes i agree with your posts, but no i actually have dated several womoen with diffrent oersonalites and they all seem to do this, maybe it an age thing, i think you may be right...... also i now when girls are doing this but you know it still hurts ... (read in full...)

How should a man treat a women, now a days?

Q.   How should a man treat a women now a days, anyways? We se so many shows and have so many social pressures, both on men and women, but mostly on women. Also though i think it's difficult to get to know someone, becuase of that persons past, with ...

A.   31 July 2012: I agree with all the post, you really never really tell what to do when your dating a person, you might get the romantic type that likes picnics on the beach, the casual love letter, then you might get the shy type, that likes the subtle things, the ... (read in full...)

Why does she do this to me? Even though she concurrently flirts with other guys?

Q.   Well recently i started talking to this girl online, the online messaging was okay. We just chatted about normal things and she didnt seem to flirt too much, so i was not expecting much for our first meeting. So when we finally meet it was grea...

A.   26 July 2012: well seems your opinion is valid, although she is from a diffrent country, not from the USA, like me. Actually come to think of it all the time when i am online her friends or friends of friends that are women, seem to hit on me and i told her about ... (read in full...)

Why does she do this to me? Even though she concurrently flirts with other guys?

Q.   Well recently i started talking to this girl online, the online messaging was okay. We just chatted about normal things and she didnt seem to flirt too much, so i was not expecting much for our first meeting. So when we finally meet it was grea...

A.   26 July 2012: Well thanks for the comments, i suppose i should have said that we have known each other for about 6 months and then we meet. I do call her and such, but the thing that i still dont get is why would anyone date others, when they start dating o... (read in full...)

Is there a such thing as a monogamous loyal man or is that a rare animal?

Q.   A male older friend of mine and I had a conversation about infedility and marriage etc...My question to all you men and or women is do you agree with my male friend that ALL men if given the opportunity for SEX will take it married or not because ...

A.   30 June 2012: I have a girl and i would never cheat on her with another girl actually i dont even look at other girls like that anymore, when i go somewhere were there are girls and plenty of them and they try to hit on me i jsut ignore them and in no way if i ... (read in full...)

My younger brother is getting married while I have yet to have ANY woman be romantically or sexually interested in me

Q.   I'm 29, my brother is 26 and he recently proposed to his girlfriend. I am very happy for them both, but also jealous. I have yet to have ANY woman be romantically or sexually interested in me and I don't have the guts to put myself out there...

A.   30 June 2012: Many guys go through this and some just are more succesful than others with the ladies but in no way does this mean that they are meant for eachother or that the marriage will last, i have seen this before and do not worry your brother may have all ... (read in full...)

She took the only thing my Dad left me

Q.   Hey everyone I know this is not a relationship question but I need serious help from you guys. Ok 2 months ago my dad passed away and he had a car he was paying for but he didn't finish the payment, my dad's friend took custody of me and she fini...

A.   30 June 2012: Hmm this is complicated the only thing that i would say is talk to a LAWYER about this. Did your father have a will if not then i would guess that the car would go to anyone who cosigned the agrement to the car so if it was your friend's dad the ... (read in full...)

How can I lay the ground for a relationship with him?

Q.   Hi guys. I need some help. Two years ago I had a 2 month, purely sexual relationship with a 30 year old man ( I was 18 at the time). He doesn't know this, but I lost my virginity to him. He is really good looking and has a really cheeky grin, he...

A.   30 June 2012: This guy is good, girl run away and run fast. I can see a mile away that he is playing you. He doesnt call or text you or visit you, hello he just used you for sex. The way i see it he is just being nice to you to keep you for another round of sex, ... (read in full...)

I like him but don't know how to approach him!

Q.   I really like this guy but I only have one lesson with him, he dosent have facebook and apart from that one lesson where we sit next to each other (we have a choice of seating) we never talk. He's quite popular but I'm only kind of popular and his ...

A.   30 June 2012: YOUR to YOUNG to have a boyfriend by the way you asked the question you need to focus on school not boys trust me any relationship you have in high school will not last so i would say forget about it but if you are so obsessed ask your friends to ... (read in full...)

Do I have to stay away from this guy?

Q.   Hi everyone:) My best friend recently introduced me to some of her closest friends as i am going to the same school as them in september. Ive met them quite a few times and found myself really liking one pf her closest guy friends. My best...

A.   30 June 2012: Girl what are you talking about, first of she ALREADY has a close friend her BOYFRIEND. I dont see anything wrong with it but then again iam not a girl so i dont know how you guys think but i hate what your friend does she keeps another guy as her ... (read in full...)

I have clear discharge, what is it?

Q.   Im having a clear discharge,i started seen it today.last month i was circumcised and i had a wound on my penis and used bactroban to heal the wound. Could it be the cause or its sexual infection? At the same time my lady has rash on her vagina but ...

A.   27 June 2012: IT sound like puss or possibly some sort of bacterial infection, you say that you got surgery then it may be that jsut puss or a bacterial infection either way Check with the DOCTOR FAST its probably nothing that cant be cured with the right ... (read in full...)

Please help... how do I get my life back on track???

Q.   Before I begin, let me apologize in case I sound like a complete baby. My life is nothing but a huge mess lately, and I don't have anyone to talk to about it so I thought I'd turn here for some advice. I guess it all started when I transferred to a ...

A.   24 February 2011: First of don't be so hard on yourself, we all face challanges in our lifes and it seems that you still have some hope for a better future. What i recommend for you is to tell your parents the truths they will be heart broken but if they love you ... (read in full...)

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