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He never uses a condom. Is he trying to get me pregnant???

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now, we love each other very much, we are really happy together, have fun, chat about everything! but every time we have sex we never use condoms... the first time i ever slept with him he said he had one ...

A.   17 November 2009: most men just like to have sex without a condom but mayb he is just take precautions and go get checked... (read in full...)

Mom wants me to be with another race!

Q.   Hi aunts, serious problem here... my mom is obsessed with me getting married to someone of a different race of my own, I am african american and she wants me to be with someone caucasian.. She has this thing against african americans because the ...

A.   17 November 2009: i mean tell her that just because you have a relationship with someone of different race doesnt mean that the relationship isnt gonna suck. i mean people are people doesnt matter if they are of different color cause i mean a white person could act ... (read in full...)

He watches porn all the time and it's doing my head in!

Q.   My fella watches porn an I've explained to him how it makes me feel, it makes me feel like I'm no good in bed, and I'm wondering is he thinking of those women when we are having sex? I also explained to him that its getting me down. I dont feel the ...

A.   17 November 2009: I'm gonna tell you where thats gonna lead. he's gonna soon want sex with someone else cause thats just what porn does it opens up new ideas in the sexual fantasy mind and when that happens he then goes to explore. but if he wont stop and you keep... (read in full...)

Where do I go from here? I'm 30, she's 19 and her mum hates me!

Q.   Hi, I'm 30 and I've just started to go out with a lovely 19 year old, we both have spoken for three weeks online and before we met we both had our nerves, we finished off the first night with a kiss and since then our love for each other has ...

A.   17 November 2009: I mean i gotta say i see where the mom is going with this like why couldn't you find someone your age but at the same time she has to realize that that young women is 19 and legal, ya know so just try to get on the good foot with the moms she may be ... (read in full...)

Why do I always try to make him jealous???

Q.   I'm with an amazing boy who I have been in a relationship with for 9 months now, in the past boys have treated me badly, but then he came along and it showed me not all boys are the same, its like he saved me from it all. we love each other, I'm his ...

A.   17 November 2009: cause you feel if he gets jealous then he really loves you but you really are makin it bad for your self and eventually he will get tired of it. the best thing for you to do is communicate with him and let him know the thought that run through ... (read in full...)

Help! He broke up with me and I'm pregnant!

Q.   I am 7 months pregnant and 19 years old, my boyfriend who is 28 has just left me to go back with his ex wife, I am crushed, how do i win him back? how am i going to cope with a baby on my own i need him. please help me! x x...

A.   17 November 2009: we'll honey just accept it but make sure you put that sucka own papers and get some support, i know you are hurt but sometime thats what we go through in life so suck it up the best you can and make sure he helps you out with that child. GOOD LUCK... (read in full...)

Why did he ask me to go to the gym with him? Does he think I'm fat???

Q.   This question may sound a bit silly but i just want to know what my boyfriend meant by this. We were talking one night and he said hes going to start going to the gym and he asked "maybe you can come to keep me company" I felt a bit offended...

A.   17 November 2009: my boyfriend asked me the same thing except i am kinda chunky and he didnt mean any harm. is fun thou try it out im sure you wanna go all the time then and when they say they want you to keep them company they mean it. but if your ashamed to go ... (read in full...)

Help! What's wrong with me?

Q.   Every time after I have had sex or maybe a few days later, I get this water fluid that comes out of my vagina, it feels like I'm bleeding to death when it happens but when I check its just cloudy water that leaks quite a lot... could this be a sign ...

A.   17 November 2009: honey go and get checked that's what i would do.... (read in full...)

What should I do after 6 years of dating?

Q.   I have been dating a wonderful man, Bill, for 6 years. He is very caring, kind, romantic and good to me. The problem is that I see no change of status in sight – he has no intention of moving in anytime soon and doesn’t mention marriage. I guess ...

A.   17 November 2009: honey, just be reading the first part of the story yea you are wasting your time and energy he is not gonna marry you and frankly doesnt have intentions on doing so. i mean you should have looked at his previous relationship and seen that coming. l... (read in full...)

Opinions needed. Did I make the right decision?

Q.   I recently broke up with my girlfriend of almost two years. She had tendencies that bothered me and I believe it is part of her personality and will never change. Part of me doesn't want this relationship to end because I care about her very much, ...

A.   17 November 2009: I feel like you didnt love her then i mean im not telling you to take stupidity or any thing like that but just say you wanted to date other people don't blame it on cause she acts childish ect. if you stayed with her for 2 years then you could have ... (read in full...)

He said I just don't turn him on!!!

Q.   Ok first thanks for taking the time to read this. This guy and I started an exclusive relationship a little over a week ago. He has a hard time staying hard during intercourse, and I am very patient with him and I continue to rub him and kiss him to ...

A.   17 November 2009: we'll honey if hes not that turned on then let it go. i really don't know what else to say i mean I never had that happen to me, I say try giving him some head and if that doesn't work then idk. Good Luck!... (read in full...)

My girlfriend's threesome is haunting me...

Q.   My girlfriend recently let slip that she was involved in a threesome when she was 16. The threesome involved her older sister (age 23) and the sister's boyfriend. Some things can't be unheard or rewound and it is now driving me nuts. The words ...

A.   17 November 2009: I mean mistakes happen, however what she did with her sister and her boyfriend was nasty she should be ashamed of herself. I'm sure thats in the past now and she is not doing things like that anymore but anyway if you love her communicate with her ... (read in full...)

Can a life-long cheater ever be trustworthy or am I wasting my time?

Q.   part one; in aug 08 my then finance added some guy to her facebook and when asked about it she said she thought she knew him, she then deleted him and i thought that was the end of it, or so i thought. part two; in jan 09 she went to her work chri...

A.   17 November 2009: honey you are wasting your time seriously, let it go. cause if you don't shes gonna wind up giving you something you can't get rid of and i know you don't want that, but anyway she has showed you repeatedly that she is not gonna change not even ... (read in full...)

How do we move on after my fling?

Q.   I really need some advice. My husband found out that I had a fling with someone else while me were separated. I have apologized and have never down played what I did. I want to know what to do? We do live together now but he is distant. Which I ...

A.   17 November 2009: well i think you should let him no there were no real feelings involved and that you are really sorry and that you love him and that you wan to work things out between you to, sit him down and really communicate with him without letting it turn into ... (read in full...)

What would you say if your 16 year old daughter asked for a hotel room?

Q.   Hey, this question is mainly aimed at mum's opinions but any others are welcome, and I'd rather you say what you think within reason and without too much of a lecture thanks. Basically, I've been with my boyfriend 1 year 8 months, I'm fifteen and ...

A.   14 November 2009: if i was you mom i would tell you no cause you should really wait til you get married, but if thats what you wanna do then ask her... (read in full...)

He showed no concern when I had a miscarriage and I am at the stage where I no longer know what to say to him, should I leave?

Q.   I have asked for help before and always received helpful and unbiased advice. My problem stems from the fact that I feel that I have not been treated very well and would like other peoples views on whether I should leave this relationship. I was ...

A.   13 November 2009: he is not the man you needed to marry in the first place I am truly sorry about the miscarriage you had, but the man in your life let him go honey you don,t need that, someone out here is looking for a special women alll you have to do is keep hope ... (read in full...)

Why do I still think about my ex girlfriend?

Q.   my girlfriend left me six months ago. she never game a reason but 3 weeks ago she she sent me a request to chat on yahoo messenger. she wanted to know if i had deleted her from facebook and if i still go out dancing, because she goes out dancing ...

A.   13 November 2009: you still think about her cause you gave her your heart and loved her and she broke it in tiny pieces, sorry i know how that feels, well you have to cut off all contact with her and let her go theres plenty of fish out here im sure that would be ... (read in full...)

Does she truely want to be with me?

Q.   Heya Well basically i dont know if my girlfriend/bestfriend for 4 years... truely wants to be with me or is cheating. First of all, shes 19 im 18, she wont let me tell anyone we are going out, because her mom would cuss her out she says, and...

A.   13 November 2009: yea i think so and you should let her alone. she wants to have sex with other men so let her go. there are plenty of fish in the sea. let her go and move on... (read in full...)

Did you go against your christian beliefs and have sex before marriage? Input needed!

Q.   This question is for practicing Catholics or christians who were taught that sex before marriage is wrong. I want to hear from those who have went against what their churches teach and have had sex before marriage and have happy marriages. I'd ...

A.   13 November 2009: no I felt guilty, AND IT IS WRONG, WE SHOULD JUST WAIT TIL MARRIAGE... (read in full...)

I'm really paranoid thinking that she is cheating one me!

Q.   Now this is a tough one. Me and my partner have been on and off for 4 years. I love her more than anything and I wish she felt the same but she has said that she doesnt. I cheated on her for 2 months but never had sex with this girl, I had ...

A.   13 November 2009: leave her alone, seriously have a talk with her and see what she wants to do and if you all can't work it out let it go.... (read in full...)

He's moved on. Why can't I?

Q.   My fiance of 3 yrs broke up with me in June. He moved on a month later. We were together for eight years and there was cheating on both sides. His cheating resulted in a child. I forgave him, but what hurt me was all the lying. I was blamed for ...

A.   13 November 2009: honey i know your hurt, but if you dont move on i twill wind up killing you. and that sorry sucka wants you to believe its all your fault hun its not, its the both of you alls fault and you should really move own In my heart i believe he didnt love ... (read in full...)

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