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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hello all, this isn't a school girl crush per say but i am unsure whether i am looking to deep into this or not.Basically at university there has been a new lecturer who has been there for over a year. He has a lot of back lash from the cohort, not his fault they were just rebelling change but i defended him (before i knew him) as i follow what right.Anyways hes about 45ish, hindu, im 22 sikh. when at uni i had broke down crying he did take me to his office and cup his hand over my ear and side of my face. Is that daughterly/father thing or some one who cares?and well when ever i need help at university e.g stuff happened and i need advice he will always help me. he would just sneak me in his office and help me and then once told me to keep it a secret. but no cheating or anything like that, just when things kicked off.But i get shy talking to him now.Anyways some thing had kicked off in my cohort when a new lecturer came, and he asked my friend to tell me to go and talk 2 him.So i did, but i guess i was flirty. He said that he wanted to know who those two ppl in my cohort were, i explained i didn't know their names. He said the uni has picutres so if i come over to his office later i can help, and it will be kept between us.I did ask what do i get out of this, jokingly do i get a A? even though all my assignment have been handed in. He looked down shy then back up at me eye contact and got close but back away saying will give me a reference.I walk back to my seat but when he leaves i can see him in the corner of my eye standing at the door with couple inches open just smiling and staring at me waiting for me to look.am i being weird or is there something?
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reader, Anastasia  +, writes (9 June 2012):
 Hi,
You're being weird. If I were you, I would make this the last time that you go into his office. These things have a way of coming back to haunt you.
Finish Uni and find someone else.
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