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female
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30-35,
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writes:I'm in between two guys. Joe is 17, and Rob is 19.I've known Joe since October of 2007. We keep flirting on and off, but honestly, there just isn't that spark that i'm looking for. However, i'm giving him a chance, and we're going out this Saturday. I like him, it's just no spark..zip..nada, but we only went out once. Rob is 2 years older than me, and he's my stage director for the school play. He's majoring in media arts at his college. Joe does like me, and I've just started liking Rob.i don't know what it was. Today I just heard that my friend Casey went out with Rob last year, and I felt completely jealous. it was weird. I mean, Rob and I have something special in common, which is our passion for theater. :)Can anyone answer my question? Because of my jealousy, does that mean I like Rob? If i do, what should i do about it? What I do about Joe? Should I even choose at all?
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reader, angelbbabe7490 +, writes (5 March 2008):
 it is obvious that you have developed feelings for both of these men. i can most certainly tell that your feelings for Rob are much stronger. He seems to have a good head on his shoulders and knows where he is going in life. The fact that you both have a passion for theater is definatley a plus! If you still want to go out with Joe you mine as well, because you are single and should enjoy that while you can. Try to make joe realize that you 2 are nothing but friends. possibly throw in one of these "your like a brother to me" or "your my best friend" these two phrases reasure that you are nothing but friends. it is unfair to lead someone on if you don't have simular feelings towards him.
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