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Does she want me to see other girls or not?

Q.   I met a girl online, and she lived in my area. We met and talked and what not, and I really began to like her, and she felt the same way about me. She had to move a few hours away, but we kept the relationship going. We had never really talked ...

A.   16 May 2008: maybe she said this to you because she wants you to have more experience with sex before dating a girl like her. but then again that text she sent to you makes it seem like she really does have a lot of feelings for you. maybe she was trying to joke ... (read in full...)

He has a girlfriend. I get jealous.

Q.   hi, they is this guy that i like so much, well i think i do have a crush on we have talked and also we have gone further even having sex. he told me that he had a girlfriend i told him i dont mind. so we hit it off. these days i like get all jeal...

A.   16 May 2008: if he has a girlfriend than i suggest you try backing off. the last thing you want to do is get involved with someone who is already involved with another woman. he may be using you for sexual pleasure. maybe this girlfriend he has does not please ... (read in full...)

He's not interested in sex. Help!

Q.   Problem. I have a boyfriend of 5 months. He does not live here. Thats not the problem. The problem is, he doesnt seem very into sex. Ok im not a nymph or anything like that, but I do enjoy talking about it occassionally. On one hand, I like that he ...

A.   15 April 2008: yeah you are right. i just did not understand the concept of an online boyfriend. i would prefer getting to know them better in person than online, but then again everyone is differnt. good luck with your whole situation and forgive me for that ... (read in full...)

Does a guy only want you for sex if he asks for it on a first date?

Q.   If a guy and a girl go out on a first date and he then asks her to be his gf and she says yes, then he asks to have sex with her (on the first date!), do you think its fair to say he probably is only really looking for sex and if he doesn't get it ...

A.   15 April 2008: Baby Duck said it all! his/her advice is key to having a good relationship. sex should not come unless you both are truly ready for it and when you both agree it is the right time.... (read in full...)

He wants to meet with his ex, just for coffee, I do trust him, but deep down it does bother me.

Q.   I have been seeing my boyfriend of 2 months, a lot lately. Over these 2 months we have learned a lot from each other. I have slowly grown to really like him and i enjoy every minute of his company. He is what i consider my first serious boyfriend. ...

A.   15 April 2008: thank you all so much!! i think he asked me just to see what i would think about the whole situation. of course i told him that it would be fine, but he still has not made the plans to actually go out with his ex yet. im sure he would rather keep ... (read in full...)

Does a guy only want you for sex if he asks for it on a first date?

Q.   If a guy and a girl go out on a first date and he then asks her to be his gf and she says yes, then he asks to have sex with her (on the first date!), do you think its fair to say he probably is only really looking for sex and if he doesn't get it ...

A.   9 April 2008: it can be hard to find a guy who does not want a relationship based on sex. but.. in your situation it is VERY obvious that he wants to have a girlfriend for pleasing his sexual matters.... (read in full...)

He's not interested in sex. Help!

Q.   Problem. I have a boyfriend of 5 months. He does not live here. Thats not the problem. The problem is, he doesnt seem very into sex. Ok im not a nymph or anything like that, but I do enjoy talking about it occassionally. On one hand, I like that he ...

A.   9 April 2008: don't you find it sorta sketchy to have a boyfriend that you have never met? i mean like i probably had an online boyfriend when i was in fifth grade. if you are an attractive girl why don't you just find a boy who you have already met. an online ... (read in full...)

How can I make her mine again??? I really want her back.

Q.   I'm in a lose-lose situation and desperately need help A couple of months ago my ex-girlfriend broke up with me for another guy. We had been having some troubles, and now that i look back i realize what these problems were...I never truly show...

A.   9 April 2008: unfortunalty its not going to be easy to make her yours again. the best thing for you to do is try your best to move on. talk to other girls and get out moree. she seems to be happy with how things are in her new life and you still seem to be stuck ... (read in full...)

He's a jerk and an asshole..why can't I break up with him?

Q.   Soo. My boyfriend of the same age is an asshole pretty much. He flirts with girls, rubs on them..in front of me and then comes running back to me and rubbing on me...He sneaks around the corners of school trying to get something accomplished with ...

A.   9 April 2008: you deserve so much better than this boy! i hope to God that you could find the strength to dump his sorry ass before its too late. being with him is hurting you mentally and physically. it is SO important to concentrate on school, and if you found ... (read in full...)

Why does he bite my arm? What does this mean?

Q.   After kissing my boyfriend he occasionally bites my arm. Sometimes it really hurts! What does it mean when he does this?...

A.   5 March 2008:  haha!! you all had great responses! thank you so much for your time and answers :-)... (read in full...)

We got back together, and now my friend won't talk to me!

Q.   Hello, I've got quite a problem on my hands. For one, I recently got back together with my boyfriend and I'm loving every minute of it! But, my one friend doesnt exactly appove of this and stopped speaking to me. I tried many times to try and talk...

A.   5 March 2008: is your freind a guy? if so, he may be jealous of your boyfriend. have you ever considered that he may like you as more than a friend? most girls are shy around your age when it comes to having their first boyfriend. start off by cuddling with him ... (read in full...)

Does my jealously indicate feelings for my stage director? What should I do?

Q.   I'm in between two guys. Joe is 17, and Rob is 19. I've known Joe since October of 2007. We keep flirting on and off, but honestly, there just isn't that spark that i'm looking for. However, i'm giving him a chance, and we're going out this Sat...

A.   5 March 2008: it is obvious that you have developed feelings for both of these men. i can most certainly tell that your feelings for Rob are much stronger. He seems to have a good head on his shoulders and knows where he is going in life. The fact that you both ... (read in full...)

My new boyfriend leaned against me and put his hand on my shoulder. Why?

Q.   I'm a 13 year old girl and I just got my first boyfriend. I actually do like him kind of alot(hehe) because he is very sweet to me. He's in my class(13). When I was about to go home(from school)because I didn't feel well, I started to walk towards ...

A.   5 March 2008: maybe he wanted a kiss from you? but then again, who could really be sure? your boyfriend probably feels very comfortable around you and to him it is not strange to be that close to you. it takes time to build up your comfort level and you are still ... (read in full...)

He's a few inches shorder than me...is this important in dating?

Q.   I'm 22 years old and just got my first boyfriend 7 months ago. In the past I had what my mom would call "practice dates" but nothing serious. Originally I didn't want to date him for some pretty shallow reasons. One of which is the fact that he is ...

A.   5 March 2008: love does'nt come is any certain shapes or sizes. if you truly feel that this guy treats you right, than thats all that really counts. you should'nt let the slight height difference get in the way of your relationship. your friend may be jealous if ... (read in full...)

How do I clarify his feelings towards me?

Q.   I really like this guy and he and i are friends( I think) Well my friend tells him the truth and he doesn't react. Everything seems completely normal between. Let me define normal he stares at me as i walk past and we dont talk at all since meeting ...

A.   5 March 2008: you should tell him how you feel towards him. i know this may take a lot of courage, but his answer can help the both of you make the next move. some guys just need the girls to be the one to make the first move. ... (read in full...)

We went on a few dates, and talk regularly...but she just told me she has a boyfriend! Help!

Q.   Hello, There's this girl I like and I think she knows it. We been on a couple of dates and talk regularly. However, she recently told me that she has a boyfriend. I still haven't told her how I feel. What should I do? Thanks for your responses....

A.   5 March 2008: Did she have a boyfriend while going on these dates with you? She probably understands that your a nice guy but doesnt want to lead you on as long as she is with this other guy. There are plenty of girls out there for you but just remember, "If it's ... (read in full...)

How can I make her feel like she's the only girl in the world for me?

Q.   hey i need some ideas to make my gf feel like shes the only girl in the world im giving her breakfast in bed and i need some other ideas... theres not special occasion just thought it would be nice...

A.   5 March 2008: flowers and chocolate are also nice. you seem like a great guy but, just make sure you don't go over board because you don't want to scare her away!... (read in full...)

I have loved her all my life and now she is unexpectedly gone!

Q.   Me n my ex broke up nearly 2 years ago, and i realy have tried to move on but it doesnt matter i cant. She was my 1st and only love, Now it all seems like a dream!!! She was my everything, we were young when we met (14 yrs) and we were together fo...

A.   28 January 2008: Right now you seem to be very, VERY unstable. No girl is going to be attracted to that. You need to set yourself up and plan your life as an independent person. Depend on nobody but yourself. If you start relying on others over yourself.. in the ... (read in full...)

Confusion! He honestly doesn't seem bothered about getting a gf, but then again what are these signs he's giving me?

Q.   Ok im quite confused. I don't know if this lad on my course likes me or not. I admit one minute i have feelings for him and the next i don't so im confused on that to. It just he sorta give m esings and other times he doesn't. He not your typical ...

A.   19 January 2008: aw, it looks like you have a little crush on this fine lad you are talking about. he seems to be the independent type of guy and you have already figured out that he doesnt mind being single. He may be use to being on his own, and it could be hard ... (read in full...)

How do I tell if he has feelings for me?

Q.   For New Years Eve I am hanging out with a group of my girl friends, my neighbor, and a bunch of his friends. Secretly, i have had a crush on my neighbor for the past 4 years. It's not a steady crush because I have had boyfriends in between, but i ...

A.   1 January 2008: thank you soooo muchhh.. i really hope that my situation turns out to be a lot like yours. i am so happy for you and your boyfriend!! :-) but i guess time will tell where my situation takes me. i will use your advice for the next time i see him. I ... (read in full...)

I just want to be single and see what is out there...but my ex loves me and won't leave me alone.

Q.   I recently broke up with my boyfriend 3 weeks ago. I had realized that instead of being tied down to one person i wanted to enjoy the rest of my high school experience single. Ever since the day i have broken up with him, he hasn't left me alone. ...

A.   31 December 2007: THANK YOU EVERYONE!! all of your advice helps. thank you so much for your time and i hope you all have a happy new year :-)... (read in full...)

My ex wants me back but his feelings are bigger than mine

Q.   Latley ive been confused.. i just started getting regrets with my last relationship. he texted me a few weeks ago saying that it has been an amazing 5 months that we have been going out and that we should do something to celebrate.. this really ...

A.   15 December 2007: thank you for your input.. because now you just reasured me that i did do the right thing.. part of me does feel bad for him.. and now i feel obligated to get him a gift as well.. do you think continuing the friendship is the right thing to do? or ... (read in full...)

Why is my friend flirting with the guy I like?

Q.   My friend flirts with nearly every boy. I wouldn't mind but she openly seems to flirt with the guy who a have a massive crush on. The over day she mentioned something about not liking her ex anymore but wanting him to fancy her anyway because it ...

A.   15 December 2007: It seems to me that your friend loves attention. Although she may not be interested in the guy you like.. she does want attention from him to make herself feel better. You should have a talk with her and let her know you how you feel about the ... (read in full...)

His friendship with his ex is a big cause for concern for me...

Q.   I have been living with my significant other for about a year and a half, and his best friend is his ex-girlfriend, whom he used to be deeply in love with, and she with him. He told me they never officially broke up, just sorta drifted apart when he ...

A.   15 December 2007: It seems to me like your significant other isn't too sure about what he really wants in his life. You seem to be more stable than he is. Your significant other seems to be stuck in his past. If I were you i would'nt allow him to talk to his ex in ... (read in full...)

His friendship with his ex is a big cause for concern for me...

Q.   I have been living with my significant other for about a year and a half, and his best friend is his ex-girlfriend, whom he used to be deeply in love with, and she with him. He told me they never officially broke up, just sorta drifted apart when he ...

A.   15 December 2007: It seems to me like your significant other isn't too sure about what he really wants in his life. You seem to be more stable than he is. Your significant other seems to be stuck in his past. If I were you i would'nt allow him to talk to his ex in ... (read in full...)

I feel like I'm sharing my boyfriend with his friends that are girls!

Q.   I'm dating a wonderful man who is the closest person I've met into being my soul mate. However the problem lies with my insecurities towards his close relationships with other women. He has at least ten best female friends who facebook, call or text ...

A.   6 November 2007: you should definalty talk to him before you decide to break up. make sure that these girls are aware of your relationship with your boyfriend!! there could be a small chance that they don't know he is with you. if this is not the case then you ... (read in full...)

Can a girl get pregnant on her period?

Q.   Well me and my girl have been together for 18 months and last week on friday 3 days before her period was over i had decided to have unprotected sex with her and wanted to know if you can get preganant while on your period?...

A.   22 January 2007: use protection and you wont have anything to worry about =)... (read in full...)

How can I meet a boy who shares my interests and can be my friend, too?

Q.   lately, iv pondered that the thought that i dont have a bf maybe more my fault then the fact that there arent any boys for me. i go to a very small high school, and there are only so many boys to choose from. lucky me, none of them are what i ...

A.   22 January 2007: my advice to you is that maybe you should make a myspace. alot of people from your school im sure have them.. and you could add them as your freind and talk to them through there. it is a great way to make friends within your school and you could ... (read in full...)

Our relationship was amazing for ages and I still love him - how do I get him back?

Q.   How, how, how can i get my boyfriend back? he broke up with me back before christmas - first called a break as he was upset and unsure whether we could have a future together. He had always thought we would, recently had had doubts, and then...

A.   22 January 2007: i dont think you exactly know what love truly is, because you seem to be using it in the wrong way. Long distance relationships never truly work unless you (yourself) could drive and see him.(or if he drives) it can be very hard to maintain ... (read in full...)

Is there hope for us or do you think she's trying to move on?

Q.   my ex girlfriend as met someone new. on saturday i told my ex " i can't have what i want because what i want is you " and she told me she loves me more than anything and doesn't wanna r-ship with anyone. on saturday night she went out with...

A.   22 January 2007: to be honest with you.. your situation doesn't sound too good. im sure your ex still cares about you but it is obvious that she wants to see other people. that text you read im sure will make you jump to conclusions. it is possible that your ex has ... (read in full...)

She frequently calls another guy between 2 - 4am - should I demand an explanation?

Q.   Ok, this is a followup to something I wrote previously. But, it looks to still be an issue. So, I'd like some opinions on what to do. I had previously written that I noticed some weird calls on my girlfriend's phone. These usually were at ...

A.   22 January 2007: i think that you should relax, sit down and talk to her. by telling her that you saw her phone bill may upset her, because i know i wouldnt like it if my boyfriend went through my phone bills. ask her if there is another guy that shes talking to and ... (read in full...)

This guy seems to like me but I'm super shy! What should I do?

Q.   please help! i am 18 years old and a few nights ago my friend set me up with a friend of hers from her work to go on a date, and we went out with her and her boyfriend as well. i had fun and i really like him and he seems really nice. however we ...

A.   22 January 2007: my advice to you.. is that you just need to relax. you seem to be very tense around people that you dont know. strike up a conversation with him and show him your true self. Ask him how his day was, ask him questions to get to know him better and im ... (read in full...)

I'm in a loving relationship - so why am I depressed about us??

Q.   Please help. I am 21 and have been seeing a guy who is 19 for 4 months now and he is amazing. We love eachother so much - we say the same things at the same time and laugh at the same things. The sex is amazing and he constantly tells me how he c...

A.   22 January 2007: first of all.. you HAVE to stop thinking so negative all the time. once you start with that mind set its hard to think positive. it is your negative thinking that is making you so depressed. instead of thinking so negative think about the good in ... (read in full...)

How do I say no?

Q.   I have a problem with saying no to boys. Last week this boy said he liked me and he was a great friend and i said i liked him to, even though I didn't cos I felt sorry for him.I'm scared in the future I might do something i don't feel happy with cos ...

A.   29 December 2006: hey.. i think that mabye you are not use to recieving compliments from boys.. but when you do get compliments you feel loved or attracted to the person. you do not want to do anything you will regret because if you do then boys will think you are ... (read in full...)

I'm developing feelings for our 18 year old neighbor...how can I tell him how I feel?

Q.   my parents recently went to florida for a week leaving me and my sister home.. we had to stay home for our sports. my 18 year neighbor stayed with us the whole week.. my neighbor and I are very close and i find it very easy for me to talk to him ...

A.   29 December 2006: thank you so much for you advice.. right now hes on vacation.. but when he gets home i will make sure that i give him a call and i will try my best to start hanging out with him again.. ANYONES response can help so if any of you out there have ... (read in full...)

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