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*rancedRhythmEar
writes:After about a month of chasing after our split, I met my GF at her work recently and she mainly said forget about her. She said continued contact with her brother was ok so long as i didnt mention her name. I agreed. Her tone of voice was playful and her body language spelled significant interest including a lot of smiling and eye contact. She accepted my mothers gift bag. She said I have your number ill contact you. Shes once initiated contact in our short time dating. Four days later after our meeting and no contact her oldest brother blocks his facebook. Both families are involved in the very start of a formal engagement process. Is she really wanting me to leave her alone or is she wanting me to fight for her? Ive maintained no contact since with both. Thanks for any help.
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar +, writes (10 August 2015):
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (9 August 2015):
 I'd back off.
Her behavior is kind of baffling, she will take a GIFT, which DOES have some kind of part in the whole arrangement/engagement process she smiles and bat her eyelashes and then proceed to tell you she doesn't want you to contact her?
It sounds nuts. And personally, I would back away from a crazy bag of cats.
And yes, DO talk to your parents, she might not be a viable option for a future partner.
I'm not familiar with Saudi customs, but I would assume if you are supposed to be courting her... there has to be some sort of contact? So if she is "denying" you access/contact is it going to work? I mean can you see yourself being married to a woman who might not WANT to marry you? (I can see no other reason for her not wanting contact then that).
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (9 August 2015):
 If she doesn't want to be back with you, she shouldn't have accepted the gift bag. Her brother does not want to play middle man that's why he blocked his face book. This is between you and her. I don't know why she's being playful but I guess it's about how ignorant both sides' of parents are, that they don't know of your split and still want you to get married. I remember your other posts about your girlfriend and she seems to play this game of push and pull. I think she enjoys the game but not the relationship. You should tell your parents who she really is so they don't waste any more time and money on her.
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