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Is my boyfriend being lazy or am I just being insensitive?

Q.   My boyfriend is 22 years old and still lives at home. He's the founder of a clothing company in which is continuing to grow although it has only been established for a few years. He makes enough money to continuously buy new clothes, sneakers, and ...

A.   5 November 2012: To "A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2012):" I smell a double-standard. It's quite fine and dandy for a man to desire more in terms of his significant other. But when a woman desires the same she's viewed as an anal, inconsiderat... (read in full...)

Is my boyfriend being lazy or am I just being insensitive?

Q.   My boyfriend is 22 years old and still lives at home. He's the founder of a clothing company in which is continuing to grow although it has only been established for a few years. He makes enough money to continuously buy new clothes, sneakers, and ...

A.   5 November 2012: LonelyTwo, In terms of his business, what actually worries me most of all is that he doesn't have a backup plan in which would provide as a lifebuoy should his business not skyrocket in the manner in which he desires. His business is all in which ... (read in full...)

Is my boyfriend being lazy or am I just being insensitive?

Q.   My boyfriend is 22 years old and still lives at home. He's the founder of a clothing company in which is continuing to grow although it has only been established for a few years. He makes enough money to continuously buy new clothes, sneakers, and ...

A.   4 November 2012: YouWish, Exactly. He has the job and the money to support himself, but yet he's still getting the milk for free without buying the whole cow. He doesn't stay with me; the only time he stays over is after we've had sex, and then he goes home. To... (read in full...)

Is my boyfriend being lazy or am I just being insensitive?

Q.   My boyfriend is 22 years old and still lives at home. He's the founder of a clothing company in which is continuing to grow although it has only been established for a few years. He makes enough money to continuously buy new clothes, sneakers, and ...

A.   4 November 2012: blonde30s, I understand your point, but I figure that if one has the money to continuously splurge, then he or she has the money to at least have their own place. His mother's household is under control, and she's quite young herself in her 40s.... (read in full...)

Does it sound as if my ex-boyfriend could be the motive behind this?

Q.   It's been almost a year since the break-up between my ex and I, and we haven't spoken to each other since. Well, when I decided to check my Facebook page I noticed that I had a new friend request. So I simply clicked to find out who it was, and it ...

A.   23 April 2012: You definitely made some good points. And yes, my ex is much older than me; he's 34 to be exact. It's too suspicious for so much time to have passed, and then out-of-nowhere his son requested me. Of course I wouldn't know whether he is or isn't be... (read in full...)

Why would my male best friend get sexual with me when he already has a gf whom he says he loves?

Q.   Okay so me and my male best friend were foolin around a little and we ended up having dry sex and him fingering me. He has a girlfriend whom he's been dating for 7 months and he told me a few days back that he loved her. If he loves her why would he ...

A.   15 June 2011: Honestly, he's a sleeze-ball. There he was participating in those acts with you while knowing that he has a girlfriend. If he truly loves his girlfriend, and respects her then he wouldn't have cheated on her with you. Overall, that's basically what ... (read in full...)

Is there anything I can do to get him to talk to me again because I really miss his company?

Q.   This boy used to like me but he stopped talking to me because me and his friend are sort of enemy's and if he talks to me he feels like he's betraying him. I've always kinda of liked him but today he got dared to hug me and I know he didn't do it ...

A.   10 June 2011: Don't ever go chasing someone who is being an absolute jerk to you. It sounds to me as if he doesn't have a mind of his own if he's allowing his conflict with someone else stop him from associating with you. And as for his friend, who does he think ... (read in full...)

I want to regain his trust. But do you even think that's possible?

Q.   Okay so, I dated this guy named Joe from January to early March, our relationship was perfect until he started accusing me of doing things. He thought I told my best friend a secret about him. He also started saying I was lying about every little ...

A.   9 June 2011: The relationship is toxic and you know it is. There seem to be red flags waving in every direction. This dude has serious issues, and I think they may run even deeper than trust issues. And according to his comments toward you, and they're utterly ... (read in full...)

How do you know what a guys actually feeling when they say one thing, then do another?

Q.   Hi guys! I've been dating this guy for about a year now and I feel like I'm always the one to initate doing things, not that I'm crazy for it, I just feel sex brings us closer and fixes any problems in our relationship and I love him. We'll talk ...

A.   9 June 2011: Oh and excuse my age range; I made a mistake when I registered. I'm actually 25-35.... (read in full...)

I lied and told my boyfriend I am 16! What should I do?

Q.   for a beggining im 14 years old turning 15 this month and my boyfriend turned 16 last month.. but i lied and told him that am onto 16 too! and now everyone even my closest friends think im turning 16 this month, but im really afraid of the future ...

A.   9 June 2011: It's easier to tell the truth rather than have to work to keep a lie alive. But if you do decide to reveal to him that you lied, be sure to mention that it was silly on your part and that you'll remain honest with him from this point on. Either h... (read in full...)

How do you know what a guys actually feeling when they say one thing, then do another?

Q.   Hi guys! I've been dating this guy for about a year now and I feel like I'm always the one to initate doing things, not that I'm crazy for it, I just feel sex brings us closer and fixes any problems in our relationship and I love him. We'll talk ...

A.   9 June 2011: First of all, I just want to mention to you that using sex to draw him closer to you and in place of communication isn't a smart thing to do. And second, actions speak louder than words. Anyone can tell you anything, but it isn't validated unless ... (read in full...)

Does he mean what he says, or do you think he just said it to make me feel better?

Q.   Hi all you great agony aunts, just a question, what does it mean when your man tells you he loves you to bits and i have no worries of him ever leaving me. does this mean he his saying he wants a future with me? he doesn't tell me often he loves me ...

A.   21 May 2011: Some women don't even hear the words, "I love you" from their man. You should be thankful that your man even expressed the love he has for you. What more could you possibly want him to do or say? He loves you. It doesn't need an analyzation.... (read in full...)

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