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hey im sarah :)

btw my age thing is wrong on this i just dont know how to change it!! im 16 :)

im a simple person but i will try to help people on this site, i know im not a top helper or anything but if you want to ask me something go ahead :P

ps. if you want my email or facebook just message me... even thou i know no one will read this haha

Does he like me? Like my friend?

Q.   Hmm, so I started talking to this guy named Jordan.. Well we have been talking for at least 3 months, but we didn't talk alot. Since than, we have exchanged numbers and such, and we USED to text constantly, like everyday. Now I'm lucky if he ...

A.   12 November 2010: i'd say he is just shy in a way, but you shouldn't put all your hopes up on him. i think you should make the first move, if you want something done you should do it yourself. if you made a move then you's might get back talking again. just text him ... (read in full...)

She walked out on me and we had only been engaged for 2 days! Will she contact me?

Q.   my partner walked out on me two weeks ago, we were only engaged for two days..... will she contact me or do i move on?...

A.   12 November 2010: well it depends what has been going on in your relationship. has she been unhappy in the last few weeks? or maybe of the fact that she is scared of commitment? i'd say give her some time to think about things and if you don't here back from her... (read in full...)

It feels like 'his' house rather than a home....

Q.   Hi there, I think this site is wonderful, it has helped me so much being able to share my problems and getting feedback. I was wondering if anyone else shared this problem. I live with my partner in his house. Up until I moved in with him, I ...

A.   11 November 2010: The part of living together is that you share everything. Yes it was his house first but don't feel like your a guest in his home. Because its your home now to. He is too used to having everything on his own and now this is different for him. Yo... (read in full...)

Has he stopped calling because he is stressed due to his financial situation, or have I done something wrong?

Q.   hi i have been going out with someone for a few months now. he was always talking about the future me and him together. that scared me cause im very pessimistic about love i always hid my true feelings from him until about a few weeks ago when i s...

A.   11 November 2010: This doesn't have something to do with what you've done. Because of all the doom and gloom in the money world, everyone has been hit hard. People can get very depressed over being broke. Even though people don't think to think it, money makes the ... (read in full...)

She doesn't want to be with me because of her past relationship! What can I do?

Q.   Im in a big trouble. I met a girl on social networking site and we became good friends. We use to send each other messages and talked on the phone also many a times for long long hours. Than finally we met at a place. We were going very good, but ...

A.   11 November 2010: I think that she still isn't over the last guy she was with. You should give her some space to think about what she wants to do. You should tell her that you have feelings for her and don't rush into anything. If she tells you that she isn't read... (read in full...)

How do I ask out this older girl?

Q.   "Just do it" she thinks of me as a friend and I swear I love her. Everyday we talk more today we talked a bunch more than ussual (at play rehearsal) she's a junior and I'm a freshman she has a younger brother my age which makes it a little weird ...

A.   11 November 2010: Well did she tell you herself that she doesn't like you? You should try become her friend first, at least that way she'll think of you as her friend and look past the fact that your friends with her brother. There is only one year between the two ... (read in full...)

Best friend vs. Lover

Q.   i am 45 and newly divorced. i ran into my first crush at asge 13 5 months ago and we have been seeing each other ever since. in the start he talk me he had a place 6hr away and he lived with his bestfriend that is a girl. didnt think too much ...

A.   11 November 2010: I think you should look into his relationship with this woman a bit more. Find out their history, like how they met and how they ended up living together. I'd say that you should see this woman in person first before you say anything to your part... (read in full...)

3 outcomes! Should I take the chance and tell him I like him?

Q.   Hey there! First off, I'm 15, turning 16 next week, so this is coming from a high schooler. There's this boy I like who I've been working with on the school plays for the past few months, and right now we are putting on the middle school play. ...

A.   11 November 2010: I'm 16, the same age so I know how it feels to wonder about if a boy likes you or not. I think that since he is going off to college he will be out of the school in time to come. I think you should tell him how you feel, don't do it near the times ... (read in full...)

She doesn't want to be serious, is there more to this, maybe her ex boyfriend??

Q.   Ok, so this is a long story not sure where to start. I'm in a relationship with this girl I met back in High School. I was in the service for a couple of years until they had told me I was no longer fit for my job. When she and I discussed how we ...

A.   12 July 2010: yes its hard to let go but sometimes its the best thing for the heart. well if she doesnt want to be in a relationship then yous shouldn't, but no one deserves to wait on someone that doesnt know what they want. do what you think is best. but you ... (read in full...)

What can I do in this situation? She claims to love me but she shows no signs of this at all

Q.   My partner and i have been together about 2 years now. at the begining my ex partner and 2 children where still living with me until they found a new home but i didnt tell my new partner this as it wasnt a sure thing at the time and even though i...

A.   11 July 2010: she should know that you always but your children first before anyone, if you feel the relationship has gone downhill i would move on and find someone that doesnt make you stress like this :)... (read in full...)

Why can't I love the man who loves me?

Q.   i feel trapped between two men. one is my ex husband and other my boyfriend. i have been dating my boyfriend for 3years. we have a 1 year old daugther but i dont love my boyfriend. i told him that so many times but he dont want to leave. as for my ...

A.   8 July 2010: well the simple thing is too leave your boyfriend, if you can't love him now then you can't later on in life and your child deserves to grow up in a happy environment, not one were mammy and daddy don't love each other. Mine never did and that was ... (read in full...)

She doesn't want to be serious, is there more to this, maybe her ex boyfriend??

Q.   Ok, so this is a long story not sure where to start. I'm in a relationship with this girl I met back in High School. I was in the service for a couple of years until they had told me I was no longer fit for my job. When she and I discussed how we ...

A.   5 July 2010: i think that you shouldnt stick around with her. sure she might be nice and you love her, but just think about it. when her ex didn't want her she loved being serious and being with you. but when her ex wants her back she wants to be less serious ... (read in full...)

I'm having a sexual relationship with my housemate, and things are getting confusing. What should I do now?

Q.   Several months ago, I started having a sexual relationship with one of my housemates. To make matters more complicated, he was my first. Since then, we have continued to have a secret (from our other housemate) affair. Several times we have ...

A.   28 March 2010: find a new place but still have a distant relationship with him uintil things cool down... (read in full...)

I'm confused between my b/f and my ex

Q.   Ok so I have been dating this dude for 8 months and he hates my ex. Well I saw my ex a couple of days and the memories of what we went through just came into my head so I decide to im him and see how he was doing. To my imagire he was doing good ...

A.   28 March 2010: well first you are comparing your boyfriend now and your ex, thats not good. they are both different people, one might be more caring and the other might be more passionite. well anyway, you need to stop thinking about sex and think about bigger ... (read in full...)

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