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writes:My crush knows I like him or has known that I've liked him. Sometimes he's like everywhere I go and other times he acts like I'm not even there : ( He ad I are both REALLY shy with each other because I know that it is possible for him to like me from before. So what do u think. Do u think he likes me ?? or...Don't be too mean because I'm quite sensetive about these things : ) Thanx Also for 2 days he was like hanging round where I was lunch time (yes we are still in high school) but the other day he didn't seem as interested : (The other day he was walking towards where I hang out on his own. He was on the phone and he was walking towards me and when he saw me he turned around and started walking to where I was going.We were in the common room and I heard one of his friends say my name does this mean he doesn't like me?Then lunch time he went to where I hang out. On the way out of school I think he was like trying to be cool infront of friends so he didn't look.One of my guys friends went camping with the school and with him on the weekend and tey became friends. My friend asked him if he liked me but he said that he did as a friend. If this is true then I don't get why he went out of his way to be near me sometimes. I thaught that maybe he said that because he's just not sure how to act around people he likes. I then thaught that because he always sees my guy friend with me that my crush made friends with him to get closer to me.On the Saturday he added me on myspace and I commented him asking him how he was but he won't say anything back and he has commented others. I thaught that this might have been so that he didn't make it obvious to other people who he might like. I was also wondering if he added me wouldn't that mean he wants to talk to me??My friend thinks he's playing it internet hard to get lol!!
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reader, onkybonx  +, writes (1 November 2007):
 sounds liek maybe he's as confused as you, either by signals your giving him, or just in his own head, i suggest you continue trying to be friends with him, try to relax around him and get to know him, you obviously share some of the same friends so use it to your advantage, hang around together, it will help you feel more confident the more you get to know him, which in turn could maybe make him a little braver..
also if you resolve to be his friend instead of his girlfriend it make take the pressure off youself...and the more relaxed you are the more inviting you are to all people...
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reader, Helhel +, writes (1 November 2007):
 Ok the thing is with guys, is that they dont want to show any feelings towards girls when they are around their friends. They will want to act big around them. Does he only ignore you when he is around his friends???
When you asked your guy friend to ask him, he probably doesnt want to tell someone he's not friendly with that he likes you. One time a guy told me that he liked me but when one of my friends asked him, he told her 'just as a friend.' They are very reluctant to tell anything, typical lol.
I think that he does like you but is reluctant to make the first move. Guys dont want to be rejected. He is probably weighing up whether he will be rejected or not. When he builds up enough courage he will ask you. Maybe speed up the process a bit by giving him subtle hints, like talk to him and touch him on the arm often, or give him lots of hugs if you are friendly with him.
Hope this helps and good luck
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