Do you think the feelings are mutual here?

A female age 30-35, *oftlipz writes:

okay so there's this guy who I like for almost 2 years now, this all started when we had 2 classes together in grade 11 and I would notice that he would stare at me all the time. I didn't like him then, but then I started to have a crush on him because I thought he was cute. so I decided to tell him that I liked him through a secret admirer e-mail and he later found out that it was me. So he told me that he didn't want to waste my time b.c he had a g.f..o.k fine, but after that, he would still stare at me...whenever i would walk by him, he wouldn't look at me until i would turn around to look back at him, then I would see him look back at me at the same time. So a yr passed and we didn't really tlk much after that until Prom 09. At Prom, I noticed that he kept on staring at me, while I was with my friends or when I was dancing with a guy. Then I was finally alone and then I felt him come closer and closer to me until he grabbed me by my waist and start dancing with me.He was all over me, rubbing my arms, he clasped his hand into mine. We danced for 6 songs straight, I was the only girl he danced with that night.We also slow danced. after prom, I got the feeling that he liked me but then him and my friend spoke on msn 2 days later and she mentioned me and him dancing and how we looked so hot together but then he said that he didn't want to give the wrong intentions b.c he was only having fun. so i felt stupid b.c i was gushing to my friend that I think he likes me and he already knew I liked him...so I left him an offline msg saying that I danced with other guys so i didn't get the wrong impression and that he wasn't the one who made my night...I felt bad about it so I confessed to him at school saying that I was sorry and that he was the one who made my night and he was smiling for the whole time...so we didn't talk after that until one night in summer, he sent me a msg and a "poke" on facebook saying:"what's up?" then we didn't talk since then...so here's my dilemma now: last week I used this application called"profile checker" and I saw that he was in my Top 10 list for ppl who view my page the most and he was #7...so I thought that was kind of weird since I do the same thing...I look at his page everyday more than once, I'm a little obsessed I would say:P, but do you think the feelings are mutual here? sorry that it's so long

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