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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi everyone.Well I am at a loss, I met a girl online, and I think we are connecting. We've talked the past few days sporadically through the day because she's at work and I'm at school. I really like this girl, and haven't felt like this about anyone in a long time, in over eight years. I'm a very shy person and I feel like I should ask her out but she's always so busy with work. And she mentioned her weekend off and I felt like that was my opportunity but I was scared to ask her and she mentioned she was seeing friends so I thought maybe another time, but when we talk she always says things like " we will do this" or invites to something in the future when she has time to do it. We some what made a date when the ice freezes over to go skating. But I'm afraid that might never happen, also I'm usually the one starting the conversations. I just want to know if it sounds like she's interested in me as well, I know she's talking to other girls and to be honest I don't like it but hey I cant do much about that. Do cupids, does it seem like I'm wasting my time on someone who's too polite but not interested.
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reader, Daisy_Daisy  +, writes (16 December 2012):
 I think you should ask her for a date and sooner rather than later, because you're obviously not enjoying being in limbo. And you won't know whether or not she's really interested until you ask her out.
It's not clear how long you've been chatting to her, but try not to build up your hopes and expectations. You say you really like her but you haven't actually met her. You're too young to have "not had feelings like this for 8 years". Was that a typo?
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