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writes:I would like some advice!!I was married for 5 years and separated 6 months ago. I have no experience in dating and I met this guy online. I met other guys but the first guy I dated we got on very well. What I found strange is that, we go out for theater, cinema and dinner but he never invited to go to his place. I live with room mates and therefore I have not invited him but he lives alone. After our 4 date we had sex, in a friends apartment I stayed after we had dinner. I invited him to have a glass of wine. It was lovely and very passionate. He says he likes me but he never calls me and text me only twice a week, just to arrange where and when to meet. We only see each other once a week as well. Is that normal?? I like to have more communication, something like call and say good night for example, but because he is not doing I am doing it as well because I don't want him to think I am too interested, but at the same time I am not being myself and I like the connection. His girlfriend of two years broke up with him 6 months ago. What do you think?? Is he want to take things slowly??
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2008): Are you sure he isn't married? Ask him why he has never invited you to his place, or maybe suggest meeting his family and friends, and watch his face.
You are obviously looking for more commitment than this man is giving you. We've all been there, we like the attention, but you could be seeing someone who can give you more of what you want.
Good luck.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (30 October 2008):
 Are you 100% sure he isn't married?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2008): Hi there,
I would tend to agree with the previous post.
Also, I would be very wary as to whether this man is already with someone - the fact you haven't seen his apartment is rather strange.
I met my husband via the internet, and before meeting him, I soon got wise on figuring out whether a man was really single or just after some extra-curricular fun.
I think if you are not getting the attention from this man, it may be best to move on and see what other men are out there.
Stay positive - there are some wonderful men out there - I had to kiss a lot of frogs before I found my husband.
Best of luck
xx
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reader, ggl777 +, writes (30 October 2008):
He probably is not that interested in you because if he was then he would call you or text you more.. since he jusy broke up with his girl friend couple of months ago i think he still has feeling for her still but like to be around you..just not enough to keep in contact with him
i think u should call or text him not more than he does so you dont seem desperate..it can turn guys off..i dont think you should be having sex with him if you are douting his feelings. Stop having sex with him and see how he reacts..he might just want someone to use so he can forget his girlfiend. This is only my opinion..
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