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Is friendship all that's on offer here?

Q.   Hey, I've met this girl I really like at my college. I've liked her since we first met and I really really want to be with her, but I can't tell if she likes me the same way or not. One day she practically ignores me but the next she'll ask me if I ...

A.   31 October 2008: Maybe she doesnt want to look desperate or she herself is not sure if you like her..ask her to hang out with you more and see what happends... (read in full...)

I think he thinks I'm not interested, but I am. What should I do?.

Q.   I'm very confused and have no idea what this man wants. I met a guy a month a go and we went on couple of dates. First date was perfect but the second he acted like a jerk. I stopped talking to him because i didnt want someone like that in my life. ...

A.   31 October 2008: well the day came and told him i would hang out but that i didnt think i was going to sleep over since i had work.. i told him to text me when he was off of work. He ended up texting me like 11pm and was trying to convince me to go but i said no ... (read in full...)

Did I push him too far by putting him out?

Q.   I have beein in a relationship for twelve years, and have children. My boyfriend and I were having problems and we broke up because of his flirting and he moved out. However we were back sleeping together soon after he moved out and I really ...

A.   30 October 2008: I'm really sorry you have to go threw this.. i know how you feel but sometimes we have move on. He is playing with both of you and doesnt try to fix things or try to figure out who he wants because he likes the fact that he can have you both at the ... (read in full...)

We get on great but lately I've been feeling this distance from him...

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for two years now. We always have had a great time together, I make him laugh and I thought that he might be the one. Lately however, I have been feeling this distance from him. Intitally it was just him not ...

A.   30 October 2008: Hi there, well my opinion is that if out of no where you start feeling like he is distant then he probaly is loosing interest or has found someone else. He might not like you that much like he use to. If i was you i would give him some space. ... (read in full...)

What does the word "emotionally" really mean?

Q.   Hi, what does emotionally mean? I mean if someone says "I've never been close emotionally to someone before..." what does it mean?? I'm a bit confused ...

A.   30 October 2008: It means they have never been with someoene and gotten really close or have fallen in love with anyone.. Thyey havn't gotten close enough to share feelings or personal stuff... (read in full...)

Doctor Troubles

Q.   For the last 3 weeks ish I have been feeling so depressed and my mum booked me an appointment for the doctors tomorrow but she can't come with me and I'm scared that the doctor will think I am overreacting because I'm on my own and not take it ...

A.   30 October 2008: Well just let him now how you have been feeling.. I dont see why the doctor wont take you seriously.. its their job to try and help you.. Dont worry too much..just know that he is there to help you... (read in full...)

Is she trying to imply that she just wants to be friends?

Q.   I've been getting close to a girl for the pst three months. Started off emailing and texting with the old paranoia of 'does she like me?'. then we started hanging out- cinema- meals etc. eventually i told her i liked her- she reciprocated. Then i ...

A.   30 October 2008: First find out what kind of health issues she has..and if a girl cuddles with you then i think she likes you.. there has to be something that is keeping her from letting you get closer.. maybe the last guy hurt her and she is playing hard to get ... (read in full...)

Do you think he just wants to take things slowly?

Q.   I would like some advice!! I was married for 5 years and separated 6 months ago. I have no experience in dating and I met this guy online. I met other guys but the first guy I dated we got on very well. What I found strange is that, we go out for ...

A.   30 October 2008: He probably is not that interested in you because if he was then he would call you or text you more.. since he jusy broke up with his girl friend couple of months ago i think he still has feeling for her still but like to be around you..just not ... (read in full...)

I am torn between two girls I have fallen for....

Q.   I am completely torn bewteen two girls I am in love with. My first girlfriend of 8 years is the same as as me(31). Everything was amazing in our relationship... except the sex. It was very dull and I tried everything to spice it up(games, dirty ...

A.   30 October 2008: If everything besides the sex is fine with you and your gilfriend i think you should forget about the 22year old and stay with your girlfriend.. You know that your girlfriend will always be there for you and as for the 22year old..u dont really know ... (read in full...)

In a relationship and I am not happy...should I break it off?

Q.   I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years and now I've become unhappy in my relationship. He's a great guy but we haven't had sex yet and yes we had the talk but he is paranoid about pregnancy. I'm on birth control but he can't help being scared. He ...

A.   30 October 2008: Sex is not everything in a relationship first of all.. and maybe you should use a condom also.. i mean what are the chances you will get pregnat using a condom and on birth control pIlls.. ... (read in full...)

3 years together and she doesn't even think she's ever been in love with me.

Q.   Hello, My girlfriend moved out of state and asked me to join her which I did recently. She lives with her family and I live alone. We have been together for 3 years and a few months. She has been going to school full time and working a few ni...

A.   30 October 2008: Hi Me and my boyfriend have been going out fot 3years and we are kinda going threw the same thing. I love him but im not IN LOVE with him. I care for him and i like his company but still im not sure if this is the guy i want to spend the rest of m... (read in full...)

He can't enter me... am I too tight?

Q.   Every time I try to have sex, the guy can't seem to enter me :( I don't know if it's because I'm too tight, or he doesn't get hard enough, but it's happened with more than one guy, so I'm guessing I'm the problem. What can I do? How can I make it ...

A.   22 October 2008: It could be many things but my guess is that you all don't know what you are doing.. sometimes if you think about it too much you'll be tense and sqeeze the muscles which will make it harder to go in. You need to relax and make sure its hard so it ... (read in full...)

I think he thinks I'm not interested, but I am. What should I do?.

Q.   I'm very confused and have no idea what this man wants. I met a guy a month a go and we went on couple of dates. First date was perfect but the second he acted like a jerk. I stopped talking to him because i didnt want someone like that in my life. ...

A.   22 October 2008: Hi, thanks for your comment it was really helpful. I think i already new all of this deep inside, i guess i just didnt want to realize that someone like that could only want that from me. He text me today asking me if i wanted to hang out with him ... (read in full...)

I feel turned on by my uncle!

Q.   Okay, this is so gonna sound weird and a little sick, but if anyone has some advice I would appreciate you send me a message back. Me and my uncle have been close since I was a baby. I'm turning 17 and he is turning 40 this year. Since I was 14 h...

A.   22 October 2008: Uum yeah it is sick. Your uncle should't be behaving this way. You are very young and will find someone your age. You dont need someone that is 40 and is your uncle anyways. Try to stay away from him and if he does something like that again like ... (read in full...)

Should a woman text/call, or should she wait until the man contacts her?

Q.   I've been on a couple dates with a guy i really like, and have known him for a month now. We have a great time when we see each other. He has told me he liked me before. I just dont know how long i should wait until i call or text him. I dont want...

A.   21 October 2008: Could it be that maybe he is palying hard to get or doesnt want to see desperate??... (read in full...)

After a year he's suddenly stopped paying attention to me, why?

Q.   My boyfriend and I been together for almost a year, everything was going great, now all of a sudden he can't pay attention to me. He calls me or sees me once a week, when I call him he talks for a while then says he'll call me back and doesn't for ...

A.   18 October 2008: One he might be losing interest or Two he probably is stressed at work like you said.If i was you i would not call him or text him.. Maybe he needs time to be by himself. He might have a lot going on like work as you said. First you should talk to ... (read in full...)

I don't want to have sex for a while, but he gets angry and says I don't love him!!!

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 7 months and were so in love with each other. im 14 and he is 15. Now dont judge me or think im a slut cause i really didnt mean to or want to do it. But we had sex and i almost got pregnant. My mom found ou...

A.   18 October 2008: Wao you two are very young. He shouldn't get mad for a little thing like that. You should talk to him one more time and tell him that you dont want to continue having sex for the moment. If he doesn't understand that you don't want to continue ... (read in full...)

Please tell me what to do? I'm a nervous wreck!!

Q.   Dear Cupid, I've been talking to a man for several months now via phone and email. We went out on our first date and it was wonderful, we had so much in common and everything just seemed to fall into place. He asked me out on a 2nd date and eve...

A.   18 October 2008: I kinda did the samething only i did oral sex. I had been dating this one guy for a month and went on couple dates. He seemed like he lost interest after i did that because i wouldnt get as much text messages from him or as many calls..its been some ... (read in full...)

My masturbation addiction is affecting my life!!!

Q.   I have just turned 18 and have had this habit since I was 3 years old, though it only got to be a problem around the age of 7. Usually when sitting at a desk, on a sofa or lying in bed reading, I have a habit of crossing my legs and squeezing my ...

A.   18 October 2008: I think you should try to get profesional help. If it gets in the things you have to do then it would be best to find someone to help you stop or to control it better. ... (read in full...)

Please.. anybody that has a chihuahua, please help me!

Q.   Okay, this may have nothing to do with sex, or relationships, however it does have to do with LOVE. I recently got a new chihuahua puppy, she is the love of my life, I'm really worried that she might have Hypoglycemia. She isnt eating well, an...

A.   18 October 2008: I really think you should take her to the vet and let them do a full check up. My first dog was a chihuahua and he looked perfectly normal but i took him to the vet for his first check up and he had parvo (a deadly virus). My dog wouldnt eat either. ... (read in full...)

Utter confusion! Does he still love me or is this just a game?

Q.   So me and my ex-boyfriend have been together for 11 months. In the beginning we have been doing fine and he was the most sweetest guy you cold ever be with. He would buy me flowers at random, open the car door for me, and lots of that good stuff. ...

A.   9 October 2008: He might be confused as of what he wants. He might want to be with you but may not want a relationship since he still might want to have fun and meet other people. i think you should stop contacting him and wait until he calls or texts you. if you ... (read in full...)

What is this guy thinking...help me out here!

Q.   This boy gave me his number..i text him n we was texting most of the day..then he said is the pub on the cards tonite then? (bear in mind havent spoke to this boy since primary but only on facebook).. so i said maybe, he said he mite go with ...

A.   6 October 2008: I honestly don't think he likes you. If he did he would have said yes. Wait for him to text you. If a week passes and he doesn't text you send him a text just saying what's up. If there's no respond then he not interested. ... (read in full...)

I feel like it's all my fault. I can't stop thinking about him.

Q.   I met this guy in early March and he gave me his number. We started going out for drinks together and getting to know each other. We soon got involved in a sexual relationship and he told me that he wanted more than sex one day but wasnt ready for a ...

A.   6 October 2008: It could be that he did have feeling for you at first but maybe you came off too needy or clingy. You should never tell a man that you love them right away because that kills every emotion that he might have for you. They like the challange. If you ... (read in full...)

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