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anonymous
writes:in love when both are marriedwe are both on our mid 40's, he is married and i am, both of us have three teenagers.our affair started 12 years ago when we both met unexpectedly in a party and as old friends , we talked a lot of personal things in our lives. it became frequent when we cry together, talking about frustrations on our partners whom we cant get along with. it happened so fast, he courted me again like he did before on our younger years, and i agreed just to make a try if we can get along well.to make it short, we are happy together on our stolen moments . we never shout at each other, it is a click ! when the 11th year came, we both separated from our partners and live together, as things got complicated, i left the country to spend few years away.my problem is, he is still supporting his wife , the fact that she still lives in the house where his children lives, do you think he is still unsure of his feelings towards me? why cant he pushed her wife out of the house if he doesnt love him anymore? he knew his wife had an affair too with another man and even had stole a certain amount of money from him, though he is not seeing his wife since july last year but what controls him from doing so ? children has been his reason since we had arguments but they are all grown up, why do you think he cant make it ?we are planning to settle things out, to do legal step , do i have to wait for that to happen?
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