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writes:i love this guy and he awsome. we txt everyday since the first time we met. my friend asked if he would ever go out wit me and he said mayb but he has a girlfriend. i talk 2 him soo much though. he sent a pic of him 2 me at random. then sometimes hes tryin 2 get me 2 send him 1 of me. hes so sweet and when hes talkin 2 me he never ever talks bout his girlfriend. not even for a min. he flirts wit me alittle and sometimes he txtes me right when he wakes up or when hes gettin ready to go to sleep. hes really open to me and he realized we have tons in common. i dont know what to do. should i tell him i love him or should i leave him alone? does he like me? or hes just trying to be nice? help me!
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reader, Destiny28  +, writes (29 July 2008):
To put things in perspective for you...imagine this!!! YOU are the girl on the other end... and he is doing this to a girl when you are with him and considered a girlfriend... how would you feel? would you wanto have a boyfriend like tihs in the first place? There would be no trust and you would always worry... honey I've been that girl too many times and it never ends well...I don't think you should waste any more of your precious time on him.... and even if you do that will be ur lesson to learn in life!!!! Good Luck
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reader, lexilou  +, writes (27 July 2008):
 You tell him to contact you when and if he becomes single but that it is wrong to be texting you like this when he is still seeing another girl x
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2008): I'm sorry but I think he's a jerk. If he has a girlfriend then you should tell him to back off and call you when he becomes single. He doesn't talk about his girlfriend b/c he wants you to think that it's all about you at that moment. If a guy tells you that he has a GF and still flirts with you he just wants to see how far your willing to go. You deserve better. Who knows maybe in a couple of months he'll be single b/c she'll go through his phone and see all the txt messages between you two and dump him for emotionally cheating.
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reader, Lyric +, writes (27 July 2008):
Ive been through something so similar to this. I honestly dont think u should tell him that u love him. Cuz i think if there was something special about u then he wudve dumped his girl to be with u. I dont want to sound mean but maybe ur just a toy to him. Something for him to play with. A guy wil do/say just about anything to get what he wants. Maybe ur prettier than his gf nd thats y he wants pix. But she has something more. Its fun to flirt but i would try not to get too deep.
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