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writes: Hey, I truely appreciate an honest answer.Two weeks ago my boyfreind went to college. He was very con ldr's and has been since the first time we kissed. we both knew in the beginning we would end up in seperate colleges. A week before he left, he said he wanted to do it, go for it and that he would rather "try" than give up immediatley. A week after (and so a week ago) he said he a scared he was going to be missing out on college stuff. we had a 5 hour talk over the phone and i told him to sleep on it, and let me know what he really wanted by the next day. He said the next day that he wanted me.However, since then i cannot stop thinking about how unsure he was about this, and it has been affecting me.We dont have any prospect of a future, never said anything about marrying, moving in or anything of that type.He is in Ohio, I'll be in Europe. It more than just "across the country" distance. All i want is his happiness, and I am beggining to feel that maybe I should let him go.Should I let him go, or talk to him about my insecurities (only twoweeks after) and fight for it? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2009): nah, give it a miss. If in doubt, don't. Plenty more fish in the sea lovey.
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