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writes:Hello Everyone,Every Friday after work I go to the local/closest bank to my job to deposit my check. I've been going there since a few months before the summer up until this day. There is this guy working there(teller) who I think is cute. We constantly make eye contact and he often sparks convo. This one time I was next in line and got him. He started speaking asking about my birthday after seeing my info on the comp and etc. Two other times he was got stuck with slow customers and when he was me waiting online he was immediately rushing them while constantly looking at me in a cute way. Also another time I was wearing a pretty ring and the lady helping me was complimenting it saying wow what a lovely ring and he was legit breaking his neck trying to look over and see. Maybe he thought it was an engagement ring that she was complimenting on lol! Anyways I often go with my friend from work so one day she said I will ask him for you if he has a girlfriend because my friend who I always come in here with wants to know. I was so nervous as to what he will say. Indeed she went came back and he said "unfortunately I do". Now she has been to this bank with other girls from our job so now I'm totally thinking maybe he doesn't know its me but at the same time I have been going with her almost every single Friday. After this the following Friday's he was extra on the eyes and kept staring at me. One day he even stood outside and started walking to his car but kept looking as I exited to see what car I was getting in. He literally didn't need to go to his car. I think he just touched it lol. He wanted to be nosey I guess but I ain't complaining! I love the thrill of the chase. Long story short now, last week I entered the bank waiting online for my friend to be done writing things and he called me over. This time he was sitting at a table all by himself. He was like let me help you. Mind you the line was long so i felt VIP lol. We were def. flirting with each other UNTIL he tells me he's relocating to a different location. I was upset inside. My heart n stomach was melting lol. I was cursing in my head like "damn" "why now"!!! We continued to talk then I said I will have to come visit you. He gave me this sexy mischievous grin. I asked if he had a card and he said yes in the back let me get it. When he came back he handed it to me and mumbled my numbers there if you need anything. Yes he wrote his cell number on the back. Here I am now left hanging but indeed thinking about texting him one of these Friday's letting him know it is not the same at the local bank without him . Maybe I'll throw in a few winks too lol. What do you all think?
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (26 September 2014):
 I'll be watching for (and following?) the advice that you get here.... because there is a woman teller at my bank who really lights my fire!!!!
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (26 September 2014):
 Well, he COULD have told your friend he had a GF, to be polite (in case she thought he was available) but he could also HAVE a GF.
So that is the FIRST thing I would clear up with this guy, whether he has a GF or not. Once you actually talk outside of "work".
You could send him an text and the whole the bank isn't the same, that is kind of sweet and not overtly "I'm hitting on you".
But IF I were you I'd be cautious. He might just be a HUGE flirt. (WITH A GF).
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