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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:my boyfriend and I broke up about 3 months ago. we were still talking and having a sexual relationship.I found out he had been talking to some other girl and i decided to apply no contact...later that week i found out they were in a relationship. 2 months have passed and there has been no contact. When i first decided to go on no contact i gave my self until thanksgiving, and at that point if i wanted to call him i would. I didnt. Now a few days later cleaning up my room I found some pictures i took with his nephew and it got me thinking of him a lot. Today, I called him. I wasnt expecting him to answer, which he didnt, and my phone call was ignored. but then he sent me a text in response. Do i reply to this? do I ignore it and try calling back another time? do i give up? I am not over him. I do really want him back but I dont know what to do. Is this girl a rebound, since they started dating 2 weeks after we broke up? If i do text back what would i say? I am all over the place and just really need advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2011): Reply but keep it on friendly terms. You are not over him and are clinging to hope that somehow you can get back together. This may not happen. So keep your dignity. Be friends, but do not go beyond the friends boundries - therein lies hurt and rejection.
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