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writes:Long story short, my boyfriend, who lives about an hour away, went to his schools winter formal. This morning, I see all these facebook posts about that night. It seemed like a lot of fun. Apparently he ground on some girl (he even said so in one post), and later posted on a picture of him and her, him with his arm around her, and his comment was that she looked more amazing than normal, and that he always thought she was "so beautiful".Meanwhile, I was at home, bored, alone, with nobody to talk to, and kinda feeling like shit, which I had been feeling all day.Now I'm kinda pissed at him, and jealous over this girl he's complimenting and grinding on. Am I just overreacting? We've been going out for several months, and we've been talking about marriage and our futures and stuff, and he's a very sweet, funny, smart, kind, and fun guy, plus I really do love him, but this just makes me so mad, and it's the first time I've felt this mad at him....
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reader, Aunty Susie  +, writes (22 January 2012):
 Doesn't sound like you were on his mind at the time, and certainly not being considered when he posted on Facebook. Sounds like very immature behaviour for one who is 'talking about marriage'. Maybe you should slow down on the talks about the future, until you know this boy a bit better!
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reader, Aunty BimBim +, writes (21 January 2012):
 I agree with the other Aunts, go out, have fun, celebrate, even put your arm around people, the comments about the other girl are could be seen as a little hurtful.....
but grinding? No way!
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reader, babu3u +, writes (21 January 2012):
 That is definetly not cool! I mean is fine for him to go out and have fun. But its like he completely forgot he had a girlfriend. I would definetly be mad and talk to him about it.
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reader, Xx-Scorpio-xX  +, writes (21 January 2012):
 I'd feel exactly the same as you if i was in that situation~ especially with the grinding; in my eyes that's nearly cheating. You should definately talk to him about how upset you are over this.
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