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writes: just over a week ago we broke up from school i am 15 me and some of my friends went out and drunk some alcohol we then became loud and started the throw dustbins around by this time we were all drunk, the police were called and i was put in the back of a police car and taken home to my parents, by this time it was 1am the police told my parents that i was drunk underage and was caught vadilising the street my parents went nuts and sent me to bed and said they would deal with me in the morning, the next morning my parents said how dissopinted they were with me and a severe punishment was required, they gave me 7 days TOTAL lockdown this means i will be LOCKED in my room at all times i will only be let out for the bathroom and half an hour per day in the garden ( PRISON ) i will eat in my room lights out and bed 9pm i will not be allowed tv phone etc but i will be allowed my laptop for 2 hours per day for good behavour, i will be set punishment essays to write including the dangers of underage drinking and unaceptable behavour and punishments, i will also have to copy out leaflets many times on the dangers of underage drinking my parents say that such behavour MUST be punished and that punishment M UST be harsh enough to deter me from doing it again , i must admit this is only my first day of punishment and already i am finding it tough, its dull , boring and very unpleasent my friends are out having fun while i am shut away in my room, my older sister says i deserve to be punished advice please ?
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (6 August 2023):
 It may seem unfair compared to your friends who appear to have gotten off easily, but imagine how unfair it seems to the people who woke up to your mess and had to clean it. It's not only the physical work, but the insult.
What would you think if you discovered someone had gotten drunk and trashed your room?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2023): Punishment is not supposed to be fun. It is supposed to be so rotten and miserable you remember not to do the dumb or wrong thing you did to get punished. Not 100 percent right way to deal with this situation, but I am rooting for your parents and hoping you learn something.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2023): Again this bs about being locked up and writing essays ?? Don't you ever get tired of inventing always the same tales with the same plot ??
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (2 August 2023):
 Yep, you deserve it.
Your behavior was unacceptable. You know it. Your sister knows it, your parents know it.
SUCK it up, you did something stupid and this is your punishment.
Take responsibility for your own actions instead of whining.
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reader, TryingToBeFree2023 +, writes (2 August 2023):
 My parents were more restrictive than that and I didn't even get in trouble! What were they doing when you were out drinking in the first place? Obviously the people whose house you were supposed to be at weren't doing their jobs if you snuck out, what were they doing? Sleeping through parenting? You're lucky that's all you got. I'd lock you out of your room with no media or privacy for the rest of the summer and from then on out you'd have an escort everywhere you went, including your first school class.
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reader, mystiquek + ♥, writes (2 August 2023):
 Yes you do. Your parents are actually being alot more lenient that other parents would be. Are you the girl who constantly gets into trouble and then writes on DC wanting us to feel sorry for you? I'm pretty sure you are.
Advice? Stop being a brat. You are driving your parents crazy with worry. I'm really glad my kids didn't act like you. You have no idea how much you must worry your parents. GROW UP!
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