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41-50,
anonymous
writes:should i remarry my exhusban? Divorced a year because of an affair i had with a female when we were married. Was with her for a year, she loves me, she bought a house for us, paid for all bills ect. i had a lot of family stop talking to me becuase of it. so i left her to move back into my house,my husban asked me to work it out with me and said wants to remarry next May. however, when we argue he throws the affair in my face after he said he wouldn't. I already said sorry, and am trying to make it work. he works 4weeks out of state and is here 2 weeks, that will our life from now on. Is it gonna work?????
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (16 July 2008):
 I think it won't work. You must be bisexual, and maybe you will want to have sex with another females in the future. He won't get over the embarrassment he felt when you left him for a woman. Maybe he does love you and wants you back, but, he just won't get over it. It would be difficult for any man. And then, you're already questioning the relationship before it starts over.
In my opinion, his having to be away is the least of your problems. You don't seem to be a good match anymore.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2008): What do you want deep in your heart? Do you want a companion that throws poisen arrows at you each time you get into an agrument? When someone truly forgives you, they don't make you feel worse than you already do.....I do know about the lonlines....My husband works 2 weeks at work 2 weeks home....I know it gets tough. Please know that I will pray for you. Do what your heart says, not family, not your friends...But do what is best for you!
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