In a relationship for three years, broke up a month and a half ago, my ex has a new girlfriend, I wrongly thought that he would still love me, even after the breakup, I am sad, but I want to move on, need suggestions? |
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writes:So i found out last night that, my ex bf who i've dated for 3 years, has a new girlfriend now. We broke up around a month and half ago, and I am speechless. I am in a state of shock. I feel like, I'm not extremely sad, I am a little sad, i am hurt that he found someone else so soon. I guess a part of me always wanted the happy ending (he was my very first and only bf) and a part of me just thought he still loved me. What I am wondering is.. whats next? What do i do, or how do i digest this piece of information? I guess it doesn't really affect my day to day life since I have already stopped talking/ seeing him since we broke up. Plus I've been very busy woth work and school. But it bothers me, and i really want to move on.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (16 July 2008):
 Sometimes you still have feelings for someone, despite having broken up, and it hurts to know the person moved on. But you can't expect otherwise. What's the point of breaking up and living in loneliness forever? There's no difference, really, if he finds someone in three months or in three years.
Moving on is healthy, dear poster. That is how we rebuild our lives and find happiness.
I see a positive side to his finding someone. Now you know that you can't go back. That will help you move on.
You're very young and you can't live in a grey world of pain. Get some sleep, wake up, and act happy. Soon you will BE happy.
Take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2008): I'm soo sorry sweetie...He may have this new girlfriend, to try to get over you. Everyone wants the "happy ending," but unfortunatly we usualy get what is left on the cutting room floor. Try not to think about it to very much....Go out with friends, keep your mind occupied, and slowly, but surly the pain will gradualy get easier. Best of Luck Sweetie!!
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