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Did she lie to me about being a virgin?

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Question - (27 September 2011) 9 Answers - (Newest, 28 September 2011)
A male Korea - Democratic People's Republic age 30-35, *ario ate writes:

hi.. M 22yrs old n my g.f is 18.. She told me that she is a virgin but when we had sex.. She got such tight pussy but she didnt bleed but felt pain in another day.. She never played any sport nor cycle.. Is she lying to me? Plz tell me sm1.. Shall i trust her?

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (28 September 2011):

tennisstar88 agony auntIt's not like blood is going to come spurting from there and get all over the place.

For those virgins who bleed, it's nothing but a medium size spot of blood. That's it. Pain from sex comes the next day, and could last for the next few days. She wasn't lying to you.

Keep in mind every girl is different.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (28 September 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony auntI never bled... many women don't just like many women't don't have orgasms from penetrative sex.

I would trust her.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2011):

Its pretty common not to bleed. In fact, your girlfriend is one of the many lucky girls on the planet who don't have to deal with a painful hymen breakig.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (27 September 2011):

Honeypie agony auntI would believe her too, not all girls bleed.

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A female reader, YouWish United States +, writes (27 September 2011):

YouWish agony auntShe wasn't lying to you. All the things you mentioned confirm that she actually was one (i.e. soreness, tightness). It's very common not to bleed. or bleed so slightly that it could be mistaken as general insignificant spotting. Not every woman bleeds everywhere when she loses her virginity.

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A female reader, Claraw1 Australia +, writes (27 September 2011):

Claraw1 agony aunttrust her, I didn't bleed my first time, and I know that my hymen was in tact as a doctor confirmed it for other reason's. Not all women bleed their first time, so you should trust her.

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (27 September 2011):

chigirl agony auntYes you should trust in her! Not all virgins bleed, I didn't bleed my first time and I didn't do anything like cycling or horseback riding. The things is those aren't the only ways to make it break! I believe my hymen broke either from a tampon I used (as my first time using a tampon actually hurt) or that I never really had much of a hymen/had a small one that didn't break the first time.

Not all virgins bleed, that's all you need to know. And yes, trust your girlfriend!

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A female reader, babylav India +, writes (27 September 2011):

:D i didn't bleed the first time too!i have only one sexual partner in life ,my boyfriend..i am a very lazy person never did much sport and never 'inserted' anything inside! but i didnt bleed at all..but it was really tight and painful ,it took us 2 tries to do it.he trusted me though..i didn't even scream much.

even one of my other friends didn't bleed her first time..there can be many reasons ..the girl may have been born without a hymen or some girls it dissolves with period blood and goes off..and for some they have stretchable hymen which will never break but only stretch

if a girl is not virgin your thing would have gone in easily..if it was tight and she felt pain and especially if she kept trying to put bring her legs together as a reaction to pain..most likely she is a virgin!

if you are so very concerned i hope you are a virgin too..if not you have no rights to doubt her!

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (27 September 2011):

CindyCares agony aunt Titally possible, not unusual at all. She may have what is called " compliant hymen "- a membrane which is very elastic and yields without rupturing. And some women are born without an hymen.

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