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writes:I have a boyfriend that I love dearly.We have a very good relationship.Lastnight after he came offline I was still on my computer.He had to go to work so I sent him off to bed.Not that I had anything planned,but I knew he was tired.I met this man online a few nights ago,so I was just there chatting.Then he started to talk dirty,I was studying (am doing my degree online),and I dont know what got over me I started talking back dirty too.It went on until we had sex over the net and I had an orgasm! I am freaked out!I feel guilty as though I physically had sex with someone else.Did I cheat on my boyfriend?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2011): Yes! That screws up a relationship. My Girlfriend?Fiance had been doing this with a guy she meet in a stupid online chat. I has suspected it was going on. Only because she had totally changes attitude towards me. I waited till she fell a sleep, after several attempts, I was able to secretly log in her email account and verify my suspicion. I was pissed! I bought you a lap top to do this shit on me! After all these years! I was so hurt, I could not believe it. Dont get me wrong, I am no perfect guy, But I never ever fucked around on her.
Come to find out they had done webcam and phone. So she says she did not show him her vagina, but she did show him her boobs. She originally said it was one boob. How dumb is that? Come on, like a chick is going to show only one boob. He did however show is errect penis and said wonderfull things that were so good, they made her orgasim. She orgasimed so well, she called ber best girlfriend on the phone after wards and told her that she had the best sex of her life. WTF? how is that possible being cyber and not real. I cannot be that good considering the fact that I am real in person? It is very fucked up. I love her so god damn much. I started getting my life togeather right when this alll went down. I started a new job. I like to call it a new career. I will make better then average money. Sure, I am not the hotest guy on the block and I dont have a penis as big as mr. cyber studs does on webcam. But, maybe there will be a girl out there that will actually love me and be 100% faithfull to me. I been with this girls for years, engaged, and she moved in with me. It is hard to focus daily, it was a shock. She has never been this type of a girl. If I didnt catch her, how long would it had lasted? Cyber stud lives only a two hour plane ride away. So, would they had meet in person? How deep would it go? I asked her, she said it was not going to last long. She said it was only a fantasy. Of course, she denied it until I showed the proff. So, am I know I will never get the truth. I cant believe this happened.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2011): Yes! That screws up a relationship. My Girlfriend?Fiance had been doing this with a guy she meet in a stupid online chat. I has suspected it was going on. Only because she had totally changes attitude towards me. I waited till she fell a sleep, after several attempts, I was able to secretly log in her email account and verify my suspicion. I was pissed! I bought you a lap top to do this shit on me! After all these years! I was so hurt, I could not believe it. Dont get me wrong, I am no perfect guy, But I never ever fucked around on her.
Come to find out they had done webcam and phone. So she says she did not show him her vagina, but she did show him her boobs. She originally said it was one boob. How dumb is that? Come on, like a chick is going to show only one boob. He did however show is errect penis and said wonderfull things that were so good, they made her orgasim. She orgasimed so well, she called ber best girlfriend on the phone after wards and told her that she had the best sex of her life. WTF? how is that possible being cyber and not real. I cannot be that good considering the fact that I am real in person? It is very fucked up. I love her so god damn much. I started getting my life togeather right when this alll went down. I started a new job. I like to call it a new career. I will make better then average money. Sure, I am not the hotest guy on the block and I dont have a penis as big as mr. cyber studs does on webcam. But, maybe there will be a girl out there that will actually love me and be 100% faithfull to me. I been with this girls for years, engaged, and she moved in with me. It is hard to focus daily, it was a shock. She has never been this type of a girl. If I didnt catch her, how long would it had lasted? Cyber stud lives only a two hour plane ride away. So, would they had meet in person? How deep would it go? I asked her, she said it was not going to last long. She said it was only a fantasy. Of course, she denied it until I showed the proff. So, am I know I will never get the truth. I cant believe this happened.
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reader, nash  +, writes (7 February 2009):
Unfortunately I have to confess I have been "that guy" obviously not the same one but I have done this before, she is 39, married with two kids. what was meant to be something to take my mind off of losing my girlfriend at the time led to me finding this lady, she resisted me for a while but eventually I snaked my way in and well it became quite serious, having cyber sex which led to phone sex in which I made her orgasm twice, but yes because of one silly mistake I made, a whole new relationship formed, and well I think I may be breaking up a family with help from her husband who had found out what was going on. if you want your relationship to stay strong, please don't let it happen again.Alexander M
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (4 February 2009):
 I'll just tell you this: if my guy was up having cyber sex with an anonymous internet gal, I would be just as pissed as if he had cheated. I would feel betrayed, hurt, completely cheated. That's how I would feel, at least.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2009): I know that if my girl told me this confession I would be gutted - if you value your relationship, don't tell him and definitely DON'T DO IT AGAIN!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2009): Thanks guys.I dont know what I think.I am sure scared of talking to him about it,and I am wondered I'll act strnage around him!I dont want to lose him.And if he's one who thinks its cheating he'll be sure to walk out-he's very jealous.I am sure it wont happen again tho!
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reader, YuukiBear +, writes (4 February 2009):
 I know how that is. Don't worry. It may be cheating to other people but honestly, I don't think it is. You are fine in my opinion.
But, You should talk to your boyfriend about it. See how he feels. Make sure to tell him that you feel bad about it though ok. If you won't ever do it again then tell him that it was a one time thing and that it wont ever happen again.
Good luck!
~Allana Rose
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