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Hi all, everyone has problems and well let's face it, men your problems tend to be with women and women yours tend to be with men, as a man I am here to help you women that are confused or worried about blokes and how their minds work. well I'm here to answer any questions you have regarding blokes and am going to give you the info you need to see how your guy ticks.

And if you feel you have something to ask but do not want it to be known by anyone other than the person you tell then please feel free to let everything go in a personal message to me, that includes if you just need someone to talk to.

How do I either get her to be my friend or just stop worrying about her?

Q.   I have a problem with an ex of mine. For four years me and an ex have been the best friends(that isn't to say that our relationship wasn't rocky, in fact it was extrememly rocky. But we were still best friends.) A little while ago we were talking ...

A.   13 February 2009: thanks every1 much appreciated ... (read in full...)

How do I either get her to be my friend or just stop worrying about her?

Q.   I have a problem with an ex of mine. For four years me and an ex have been the best friends(that isn't to say that our relationship wasn't rocky, in fact it was extrememly rocky. But we were still best friends.) A little while ago we were talking ...

A.   10 February 2009: yep, let her know I'd be there for her no matter what, and well she sent an angry email.... (read in full...)

How do I either get her to be my friend or just stop worrying about her?

Q.   I have a problem with an ex of mine. For four years me and an ex have been the best friends(that isn't to say that our relationship wasn't rocky, in fact it was extrememly rocky. But we were still best friends.) A little while ago we were talking ...

A.   9 February 2009: oh well just got completely blown off now. thanks anyway... (read in full...)

Men's biggest turn on that women don't know about

Q.   Hi guys its blue kev from girls ask guys. Guys we all know about the kind of woman we dream about and the kind of woman we meet in real life. How many times have we dreamed of a girl saying three simple words. I Like you. And she kinda floats like ...

A.   8 February 2009: 110% agree with you bluekev, we love to feel needed.... (read in full...)

How do I either get her to be my friend or just stop worrying about her?

Q.   I have a problem with an ex of mine. For four years me and an ex have been the best friends(that isn't to say that our relationship wasn't rocky, in fact it was extrememly rocky. But we were still best friends.) A little while ago we were talking ...

A.   8 February 2009: Thankyou for the advice, I still would like others to post with advice too.... (read in full...)

How do I either get her to be my friend or just stop worrying about her?

Q.   I have a problem with an ex of mine. For four years me and an ex have been the best friends(that isn't to say that our relationship wasn't rocky, in fact it was extrememly rocky. But we were still best friends.) A little while ago we were talking ...

A.   8 February 2009: forgot to add she had already moved on finding a bloke before I could even think of moving on and she soon got engaged to him after that.... (read in full...)

He popped my cherry but didn't cum, I can't get pregnant can I?

Q.   my best friend and i had sex and he was so nerves we were having sex he told me that i was his fist time but what didn't make sense to me was he wasn't getting off and he said that there was no pre cum coming out.He told me the next day that he got ...

A.   8 February 2009: only if you both are 110% sure that there was absolutely no ejaculate whatsoever then no there is not a chance that you could be pregnant but it is near impossible to know if he has or not as if the bloke is inside the vagina then the moistness ... (read in full...)

All I want to do is to hide in my bed all day

Q.   Lately I have begun to feel very low and isolated. Im usually a chatty, active 25 year old but over the last few weeks I have had such a horrible feeling inside me it wont go away. I feel cut off from my friends and sad that I havnt got anything ...

A.   8 February 2009: Friends(true friends) will understand absolutely anything their friends have to say, explain the situation, see if you could go out with them, on them for the night and pay them back when you can afford it, although you feel that you don't know what ... (read in full...)

What kind of things could I say to help to turn him on during sex???

Q.   Hi I've recently started getting a lot closer to my boyfriend. He's started asking me to give him blow jobs however i've never done one before and i don't have a clue what to do. Are you able to give me any tips on what to do and what feels good?...

A.   7 February 2009: well that's the blow job done, as for the talking, it's pretty simple. although this sounds like just sensual rubbish simple things like "I love you" spoken in a hushed tone whilst gazing into his eyes, or stuff like "(name) I think it's time" ... (read in full...)

Why is it easier for guys to get a partner than it is for girls?

Q.   why is easier for guy to girlfreind then a girl to get a boyfreind, i find getting boyfriend next to impossible and i don't like dating web sites.i find guys don't like becasue i have a fat round face and short body thats out propertion,and chubby l...

A.   7 February 2009: rythymandblues is quite right in the sense, we think we choose the girl but in all honesty, we know that it's not us that chooses the girl, it's the girl that accepts our liking of them. the thing here is quite simply you haven't found the one that ... (read in full...)

I like my partner to urinate in me, is that wrong?

Q.   i am a gay male that has finally hit 30 and my boyfriend of 9 yrs is 43, but that's not the issue. a little while after my b-day, all these thoughts came to mind. it has been a while since me and my BF have had sex, but i am not sure if that is ...

A.   7 February 2009: Although I'm straight, if he is doing that just for you then obviously the relationship is very good, the fact that he wouldn't do it by choice is one that has to be taken into consideration. The best way to have the best of both worlds is to come ... (read in full...)

Cyber sex after my guy left! Is this cheating?

Q.   I have a boyfriend that I love dearly.We have a very good relationship. Lastnight after he came offline I was still on my computer.He had to go to work so I sent him off to bed.Not that I had anything planned,but I knew he was tired. I met this man...

A.   7 February 2009: Unfortunately I have to confess I have been "that guy" obviously not the same one but I have done this before, she is 39, married with two kids. what was meant to be something to take my mind off of losing my girlfriend at the time led to me finding ... (read in full...)

We met online but she is 22 years older than me (40) do you think this relationship could work?

Q.   Hi Im 18 and recently went on a few dates with a 40 year old women, after meating her online, i think it went really well, but do you think we will get a lot o trouble becuase of the 22year age gap? And is anyone else in a similar situation. ...

A.   7 February 2009: I am in pretty much the same situation, I'm 17 and she is 39 though she is married with two kids and I'm not sure if it's anywhere near that with you and your woman. The relationships can easily work as long as both of you want it too and you both ... (read in full...)

We met online but she is 22 years older than me (40) do you think this relationship could work?

Q.   Hi Im 18 and recently went on a few dates with a 40 year old women, after meating her online, i think it went really well, but do you think we will get a lot o trouble becuase of the 22year age gap? And is anyone else in a similar situation. ...

A.   7 February 2009: I am in pretty much the same situation, I'm 17 and she is 39 though she is married with two kids and I'm not sure if it's anywhere near that with you and your woman. The relationships can easily work as long as both of you want it too and you both ... (read in full...)

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