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My name is Allana Rose. I am in a relationship. I am 15. I have had a pretty crappy life and I know how it feels to be hated, uncared for, used and so many other things. I am always there for people even if I do not know them. I have been hurt so many times for being like this but I don't mind. As long as the person is better in the end I don't mind the pain I would have to go through. I know what it is like to be dumped, being the dumper, cheated on, being the cheater, Being aroused almost all the time, Arousing people I didn't mean to arouse, Being in love with two guys, being Bi, Wanting a baby. So yeah... I can help just about anybody with just about everything they can throw at me.

Selfish one night stand. Could I get pregnant?

Q.   Ok the other night I decided to go to out with my sister and ended up finding a cute guy.So anyways took him back home was drunk and horny and slept with him using no protection and I am not on any type of bc,I told him that. He never came in me a...

A.   7 April 2009: Well hun. There could be that chance. If you miss your period then get a test k. That is all I can tell you. Wish you luck!... (read in full...)

Got drunk, unprotected sex, now afraid of pregnancy!

Q.   Umm ok... on the seventh of this month I got drunk and made a mistake with a guy. I had sex with him and we didn't use protection. Well... I was supposed to start my period like the next day after that or so but I didn't. I sort of have an irregular ...

A.   24 February 2009: Well Jessica04. I wouldn't take the meds anyways. I do NOT need them. And yeah it was a life altering mistake but my life changes all the time. A baby wouldn't be much of a difference since I am already the caretaker in my household. I am the one ... (read in full...)

Got drunk, unprotected sex, now afraid of pregnancy!

Q.   Umm ok... on the seventh of this month I got drunk and made a mistake with a guy. I had sex with him and we didn't use protection. Well... I was supposed to start my period like the next day after that or so but I didn't. I sort of have an irregular ...

A.   24 February 2009: Sorry ARMYMEDIC. I was a bit harsh as well. I am just really freaked out and people keep bugging me about it that know. And also, if I am pregnant I don't know if my baby will have a dadda cause I don't know if my boyfriend will leave me or not and ... (read in full...)

Got drunk, unprotected sex, now afraid of pregnancy!

Q.   Umm ok... on the seventh of this month I got drunk and made a mistake with a guy. I had sex with him and we didn't use protection. Well... I was supposed to start my period like the next day after that or so but I didn't. I sort of have an irregular ...

A.   23 February 2009: Well thanks ARMYMEDIC! That is just soo f*cking nice of you! I am not suicidal ok! God! It was a one time thing! It was one little f*cking mistake! And I will NEVER give up my baby if I am pregnant! I would give it the best f*cking life it could ... (read in full...)

Got drunk, unprotected sex, now afraid of pregnancy!

Q.   Umm ok... on the seventh of this month I got drunk and made a mistake with a guy. I had sex with him and we didn't use protection. Well... I was supposed to start my period like the next day after that or so but I didn't. I sort of have an irregular ...

A.   22 February 2009: Well I am no danger to myself. It was the first time I had ever done something like that (And definitely the last). My therapist thinks I am suicidal that's all. Which I am not. And I am proving it to her by not fighting the hospitalization. And if ... (read in full...)

I lost my best friend because of all this

Q.   Ok. Today I lost my best friend (I think) We have been together for almost 10 years now and lately things have been going down hill. See... She is engaged to this guy we call Kyo... He is bi and so she lets him be with other guys... Well... My ...

A.   21 February 2009: The situation is figured out. Thankyou for the help!... (read in full...)

I lost my best friend because of all this

Q.   Ok. Today I lost my best friend (I think) We have been together for almost 10 years now and lately things have been going down hill. See... She is engaged to this guy we call Kyo... He is bi and so she lets him be with other guys... Well... My ...

A.   9 February 2009: Yeah she probably did. But honestly I don't care. My boyfriend chose me. That is all I care about. It just sucks that I had to break off my 10 year friendship with her that's all. ... (read in full...)

I lost my best friend because of all this

Q.   Ok. Today I lost my best friend (I think) We have been together for almost 10 years now and lately things have been going down hill. See... She is engaged to this guy we call Kyo... He is bi and so she lets him be with other guys... Well... My ...

A.   8 February 2009: Well yeah he is bi... and they were together... but he left the guy for me... and now my best friend (now X friend) hates me cause her boyfriend got broken up with by my boyfriend... My boyfriend loves me... He chose me... why would she be mad? ... (read in full...)

Was she a virgin? or did my ex b/f take it from her?

Q.   I need to know if my girlfriend is a virgin. She claims she is, my friends say she is not, i don't know what to think. Before we started dating, her ex bf (my best friend) and her were in her basement drunk and naked making out. He was on top of ...

A.   4 February 2009: She may not be a virgin when it comes to penetration. But, I consider that losing your virginity is when you do it with someone that you want to and that you love. If she didn't want to do it with him then she was a virgin then. I say that she lost ... (read in full...)

Cyber sex after my guy left! Is this cheating?

Q.   I have a boyfriend that I love dearly.We have a very good relationship. Lastnight after he came offline I was still on my computer.He had to go to work so I sent him off to bed.Not that I had anything planned,but I knew he was tired. I met this man...

A.   4 February 2009: I know how that is. Don't worry. It may be cheating to other people but honestly, I don't think it is. You are fine in my opinion. But, You should talk to your boyfriend about it. See how he feels. Make sure to tell him that you feel bad about it... (read in full...)

Non-experienced girlfriend with master of experience boyfriend.

Q.   I'm a 15 year old virgin with ZERO experience in the sex department and my boyfriend seems to be a FREAK in that department. He's 18 but you see I wanna be able to fufil his sexual desires but I'm a virgin and I dunno if I wanna lose it yet. Yet I ...

A.   3 February 2009: Are you sure you want to lose it to him? That is the only question I ask. If you want to lose it to him then go for it. If you aren't sure then wait until you are. If you don't want to then don't. If he wants sex then he will have to wait until yo... (read in full...)

My boyfriend keeps pushing for sex and I don't feel ready!

Q.   My boyfriend keeps pushing the issue on 'Sex' And I'm not ready. He tries and tries again, but his efforts are useless. We've gone as far as very passionate kissing and touching, rubbing that kinda thing. I'm not a tease but he initiates all this ...

A.   3 February 2009: Guys can be such idiots some time (No offense to any of you guys out there who aren't) I have been in this situation before (I am 15 but still, don't mean the situation was any different). My X boyfriend (when we were dating) would always push the ... (read in full...)

Has anyone 'come out' at this age (16) to friends and family? How did you do it?

Q.   Hi, I'm nearly 16 and I live in Warwickshire in England. The question I wanted to ask is has anyone here came out at this age to their friends and family? If so, can you advise me on how to go about it? I usually would have little troubl...

A.   3 February 2009: Well, I am bi but it was just as hard to tell my parents and friends. I eventually told them and they didn't seem to mind. Even my friend who is a major homophobe didn't seem to mind. People at school found out and I was the topic of choice for a ... (read in full...)

Why is there so much pressure for virgins to give in?

Q.   i've come across alot of teen girls on here who say they are virgins and are not ready for sex, yet they want to do it just to please the guy. please tell me why girls feel so pressured into having sex when they don't want to. why do SOME guys not ...

A.   3 February 2009: I think it is just because... Well... They want to be the first... They want to be able to brag about taking a girls virginity to their friends. Also... As many of my guy friends say... "The girl has no chance of having std's and they are better ... (read in full...)

Is she making me into a pedophile if she lied about her age?

Q.   Ok, so I met this girl (from this site actually) and we have hit it off, and we are in a relationship, despite the fact we live hundreds of miles away form each other. I'm 19 and coming 20 in a few months. Her profile said she was '13-15'. Which I...

A.   3 February 2009: Well, Honestly... You knew that she was young to begin with. You may not have known the exact age but still... You should have asked her for her age when you first began to chat with her. I am not judging you or anything but still. You should have ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend things it's wrong to have fantasies about me

Q.   ok so my girl thinks it is wrong of her to have fantacys about me but i think it is hot so how can i ask her to see it my way idk how it is wrong to think of the one you love the most...

A.   2 February 2009: Wow... Hehe... Just tell her you like that she has fanasies k... Come on brother... You know she secretly likes it... Hehe. ... (read in full...)

21 year old dating a 15 year old?

Q.   So I recently have been attracted to a younger gal. The thing is shes 15, and I'm 21. I've been to dinner with her family many times, and they like me a lot. They invite me to a lot of occasions, dinner and drinks every week or so. But I'...

A.   1 February 2009: Well I am in a situation like that in a way. I am 15 and the boy is 18. It isn't about sex so I would say that it is alright. All you have to do is be careful. If anyone were to get mad at you they could say they saw you and her doing things you two ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my stepbrother

Q.   Please somebody give me some advice. I think I might be I. Love with my stepbrother and I don't know what to do! I'm so confused sometimes he acts like he likes me and then he acts like he doesn't? But I really think he does and so does my closet ...

A.   1 February 2009: I think that maybe you should ask him some questions that can prove whether or not he likes you back. Ask him if he does then see where it goes from there. If he doesn't like you like that then you have no problem. If he does then you two will have ... (read in full...)

I love him but I didn't want to have sex

Q.   im a 22yrs old and i lost my virginity last month to my bf of 11 months. i was saving my self for marriage b\c its part of my religion. my bf pressured me into doing it but i started to cry during it and he stopped. the next day he tried again and i ...

A.   31 January 2009: Well... talk to him about it. Tell him that you didn't want to and that it was wrong of him to pressure you like that. If he gets mad then you should leave. If he apologizes or says you don't have to do anything you aren't comfortable with then he ... (read in full...)

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