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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I met a girl soon after starting university who I got on extremely well with. We had similar political views, an identical sense of humor and world outlook as well as comparable tastes in art and music. For the first few months of our relationship started out very well; going out with each other regularly, speaking on Facebook and Texting all the time. She had even gone as far as inviting me to visit her in Oxfordshire for three days over the Christmas break. We went out for a drink last Monday and then on Wednesday I took her to the station as she was going home for a long weekend. Since then she has taken to ignoring me completely. Facebook messages and texts have gone unanswered to, as was the phone call I made.As far as I’m aware I never did anything wrong, I’ve been raised to be a Gentleman in my behaviour towards women, I constantly picked up bills and I never said or did anything that could offend her. It’s not so much that I’m intent on perusing her, but rather I want to know why she has cut off all contact with me so unprecedentedly so I could at least have a chance to apologise for whatever she feels I did. I have always tried to treat people around me as well as possible and hate to think that I’ve done something so bad that it warrants a complete blackout on communication. Any advice would be appreciated
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2011): 1) She doesn't think u are available. 2) she found someone else
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (5 December 2011):
 Are you guys together, as in boyfriend-girlfriend?? Or was this just seeing each other, casual dating?
1. She lost interest and is too coward to outright tell you.
2. Or she met someone else.
Maybe a combination of the two.
It's nothing you did wrong. As I see it, you did everything correct.
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