A
male
age
30-35,
*91
writes:So here's the prob, I can't cum whilst wearing a condom...I recently had sex with a condom for the first time (2 nights in a row and didn't cum on either) , I've had sex without before and had no problem with ejaculation.Is there anybody that has had this prob that can offer advice?
View related questions:
condom, ejaculation, orgasm Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, N91 +, writes (12 January 2012):
N91 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thankyou guys, I'd just been using a standard durex condom so none of this super thin stuff. Ill check those out for sure!
And of course I always respect that contraceptives need to be used, I don't very much want a kid at this age myself!
A
male
reader, doublejack  +, writes (11 January 2012):
As someone who was married for 10 years and then rejoined the dating pool, I can totally empathize with you. In fact, I was so used to sex without condoms that when I first started using them again, I would go limp right after putting it on. It was a big issue for me to overcome and ended a few potential relationships because the women became impatient.
My advice is to just stick with it. I learned it is all mental. Eventually you will get to the point of really enjoying sex again, even though you're wearing a condom, and you'll be able to reach an orgasm. How long it'll take you to adjust depends on you. For me it took several months and 3-4 different partners, but like I said I had enjoyed sex for 10 years without condoms. You may adjust more quickly than I did.
Best of luck!
...............................
A
female
reader, AuntyAlexxmo +, writes (11 January 2012):
 It is a mixture of all the suggestions.
It wil take you some time to adjust to the difference, cant expect to be used to it straight away.
The more you think about it, it will become more of a issue as you will be thinking about that and not the actual sex.
Try differnt condoms there are so many types, either look at the chemist or online if you dont want to do it face to face.
Foreplay is important for men as much as woman so make sure you are turned on before you start the actual sex.
And please remember that as annoying and frustrating this may be using conraception is important for your safety and the girl you are with as well as unwanted pregnancies.
...............................
A
female
reader, person12345 +, writes (11 January 2012):
 Try thinner condoms, like kimono. You may also just have to give yourself time to adjust.
...............................
A
male
reader, JakeChaucer +, writes (11 January 2012):
All mental dude, Try a ribbed condom or a thinner one. Also do more foreplay before, you must be 100% erect
...............................
A
male
reader, MrMcLovin +, writes (11 January 2012):
What sort of condoms are you using?
Go to a pharmacy and ask the person in there; i know it sounds embarrassing but they will probably be able to suggest another condom. Maybe a thinner one or something?
Maybe it just takes longer for you with a condom, but i dont see how that would be a disadvantage haha! Most people struggle with timing issues if you get what i mean...
...............................
|
