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writes:Hi I am not sure why i fall for men so fast. I was just in a two year relation ship and he cheated on me so bad. I finally got sick of it and after two years i dumped his ass. Well I got involved with a nice guy I thought hit was nice. 'He opened the car door for me, touchy feel it was great. he stop calling me and texting me so I said hey how are u what is going on. I knew what was going on, he distanced himself from me, and then told me I act like his x and makes him not want to be around me. well after he got done having sex with me everyday he dropped me like a hot potato. He said he loved me first, he said he was confused, but I made sure he was not. So he must have wanted to be with his x or get with someone and its over and I am hurting so bad I will not trust men anymore. It just hurts to bad not worth it.
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reader, no nonsense Aidan  +, writes (28 December 2012):
You can’t judge all men as being untrustworthy, that’s as crazy as saying that no woman can be trusted because, like men, some women cheat, lie, and break hearts without a second thought. Anyway even if you set out not to ever trust a man again, unfortunately feelings aren’t that easy to escape and turn off. Even if you don’t go out of your way to meet some-one, you just might encounter some-one you like. Just make sure you take things very slowly and really get to know them first. Take sex out of the equation for quite some time and if he’s at all worthwhile he won’t mind waiting for you. Yes, there’s risk in everything, maybe you’ve done all the right things and just been unlucky so far with your men. But don’t dismiss the next man that shows an interest without any thought or considering that maybe he’s your bit of good fortune.
I wish you all the very best.
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reader, emii +, writes (28 December 2012):
Yes you can trust men after this. This is one guy that has meesed you about and not all of them are like that. There ar eplenty of living and kind men out there, and I am sure there is one out there for you.
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