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Lying about my life just so he is interested in me!

Q.   i am gonna sound so strange but here we go. Well recently i have made friends with this boy, and we have become really close, but i have been telling him lies, just so he is interested in me :( i told him i have 8 sisters 5 cars and my hair colou...

A.   12 November 2008: y did u feel that u had to lie about who ur family are im sorry to say this but u will get courght out, u cant make up a lie for ever if he likes u for u then he will understand love lets_partyx... (read in full...)

Can a person 20 or 30 years older fancy someone who is 16-20 years old?

Q.   Hey guys, I have one question for you. Do you think it's possible that somebody who is much older than you (20 or 30 years) fancys a girl who is 16-20 years old? Especially if that somebody is in position of power (like for example boss, teacher,...

A.   7 November 2008: dont worry it happons im in the same position. im 17 hes 32 if u like them and they like u and u both are single weres the problem x x... (read in full...)

I'm 14 and feel I am ready for sex. Advice ?

Q.   Hello, I am a 14 year old girl. You need to know that because my question is about being ready for sex. Its a long question even though it answers will probably be short. Well, I have been with my boyfriend for just over nine months. We are real...

A.   7 November 2008: hey one of the things i need to know how old is he. ... (read in full...)

Could you tell me if I am pregnant?

Q.   I was having fun with my boyfriend the other day, and we had intercourse trice.. He ejaculated outside the vagina on the stomach in the first time, we waited around 20 minutes before he got back in shape and we went at it again. i was wondering, ...

A.   3 June 2008: if your worried you have to get tested thats the only way that you can tell gd luck xxx... (read in full...)

I'm too shy to ask for his e-mail address face to face...

Q.   Hi, i was just wondering does anyone know a site, were i can find someone's email adress, please any help would do. Thanks i relly need it, as i'm too shy to ask face to face. Please it would be doing me a great favour....

A.   28 May 2008: do u talk to him if yes take his phone and put ur number in, if luck has it he might text u reply get texting and then right hey my cridits about to go do u have msn. he then will give u his email. if no then look on bebo if teenager guyswill pos... (read in full...)

How will I know if I am ready for sex?

Q.   how will i know if im ready for sex? me and my bf have been together for just over 8 months and we havnt had sex and i am still a virgin. i often think about having sex with him but sometimes i get scared becus im a virgin and hes not and whether it ...

A.   4 May 2008: u will know when ur ready u will feel that your with the right guy.. your a virgin and if he knows that then he knows that u wont be that experenced, if u feel that your sitll not ready then ur not ready u will know if ur ready and if ur with the ... (read in full...)

Am I over-reacting over these nude pictures (he keeps under his pillow)?

Q.   i dont mind my bf watching porn, but i dont like it wen he looks at pictures of naked women as this leads to him obviously fantasiing about them. he promised me he wouldnt look at pictures like that, but the other day i found pictures of naked ...

A.   17 April 2008: do u feel that if he looks at video maks it un real but if he looks at a hard coppie of naked girl makes it more real?? xx... (read in full...)

Has she found someone else or has she has feelings for me but feels uncertain in some way that it can ruin our friendship?

Q.   Hello guys and gals well yesterday me and my best friend got into an argument you see ppl kept on telling me that she liked me(and knowing her she would act stuborn if she did or not) well things got outta hand. we argued to a point she said some ...

A.   16 April 2008: right think howu feel about her, do u think that u kissed her in the heat of the momentxx ... (read in full...)

Site News: We hit another milestone :-)

Q.   For the first time we broke the 400,000 visitors mark over the past month! We had 412,222 people visit the site from Jan 13th 08 - Feb 14th 08 according to google analytics! Thanks to all the mods, the aunts and everyone who shares their pro...

A.   14 February 2008: whoo go us xxxxxx... (read in full...)

Want to lose my virginity but uncomfortable with the way I look.

Q.   i will be turning 17 in a few months. I am still a vrigin and one of the select few in my school. I kinda want to lose my virginity but i am very uncomfortable with the way i look. I feel totally disgusted wen i look in the mirrors. My friends say i ...

A.   15 January 2008: i feel un conftorbale with the way i look but i done wat ur thinking of doing i lost it to a bloke i did not know and i regreated it still now who cares if u dont lose it no one will have ago at u and when ur ready u r ready when ur not ur not ... (read in full...)

Should we tell mum i'm pregnant over dinner?

Q.   Should me and my boyfriend tell my mom im pregnant over dinner? we really need to tell her and soon because its really heavy on my heart that im keeping this from her. we arent all that close but she is still my mother. i expect for her to ...

A.   8 August 2007: i think it gd that u want to tell her but not over diner sit down together and tell her when ur not arguing tell her carmly and well u never know she might surprise u x... (read in full...)

My my weight is causing me to be unhappy....

Q.   Hi, I'm 14 years old and have always been happy with my weight, I don't know how much I weigh but I am starting to feel unhappy, this is causing me to make myself be sick and I am exercising lots, I want to wear baggy clothes as well. I have to...

A.   7 August 2007: the best thing to do is talk to some one like a doctor or ur perents they can help u thought this, its best to go and find out how much u waightannd dont go on these diets were u dont eat anything u need to do it the old fached way my excrcising, i ... (read in full...)

Dated my cousin and now Dad has found out and will be talking to me! What do I tell him?

Q.   Hey guys... I had a wonderful relationship with my 1st cousin.. Then after 3 weeks we broke up because we knew people already knew that we we're together... She has been played around by this guy... When my uncles found out they got really pissed...

A.   7 August 2007: tell him what really happend if u really did not force the realtionship on her then u need to tell her to stop lyin and tell the truth but it is ur word ajienced hers xx ... (read in full...)

Would it be wrong to have a f*** buddy while my girlfriend is out of state?

Q.   Is casual sex OK when you love someone else who is not around? My girlfriend took a job that forces her to travel out of state for weeks at a time 90 percent of the time. I love her but dont want to sleep alone. Is it wrong to find a casual sexual ...

A.   6 August 2007: yer it is wrong she is ur gf if u love her u have to sleep alone un till she comes back if u think she will be ok with it u might as well reion ur relationship with her if she finds out she will never trust u agian x... (read in full...)

I think he wants to break up with me.

Q.   I have a boyfriend and since our three months vacation he called me just 3 times, he claims he is going through some family problems, but i think he wants to break up with me but doesnt know how to go about it,less he hurts me. am i assuming? what ...

A.   6 August 2007: u will never know untill u ask him, if he wants to brake up with u he needs to tell u soon so that he wont keep string u on. x ... (read in full...)

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