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writes: i have been talking to this guy for about 4years on msn and a really do like him like actually soo much but he lives soo far away and he wants us to be more than friends but i just cant see it working because of the distance and hes away on holiday right now and says that i have to pick him or my boyfriend and he says that he will move down here next year just to be with me and get a flat and go into college down here if a split up with him. hes like my best mate a cant lose him as a friend!!i have been with my boyfriend down here for 2months now and he says hes in love with me what should i do? :|
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reader, starfairy  +, writes (20 August 2009):
 A true friend would never ask you to choose something like that.
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reader, VirginMaster  +, writes (20 August 2009):
 It is quite a complicated problem that i've had some personal experience in.Hmmmm. you have to sit down and think about this for a long time before you make your choice. You've met your boyfriend obviously, but you haven't met him.When you do, the chemistry can be electric and fantastic, i met my fiance on an IM and we're happy. but i've also had quite a bit of disappointment from the same thing.You have to sit and decide who you care for more, and who you'd prefer as the man in your life. You must just be very careful.I can't tell you who to choose, it's up to you.All i'm saying is that it could be extremely rewarding and amazing - that love and spark and passion is between you and your friend in real life also - or it isn't and it turns out to be a mess.If only you could choose after meeting him in the flesh and then knowing how he is in the physical world and not only in front of his pc.If you're like me, you'd try it. but if you're not so outgoing and risky then you'd stick with what you've got and make the best of it.It's up to you. feel free to contact me about it. .. ...
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2009): This question is a repeat of:http://www.dearcupid.org/question/this-guy-ive-been-talking-to-on-msn.html
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