A
female
age
36-40,
*allingintodarkness
writes:About six years ago I wondered from house to house, bridge to bridge... one day i found the father of my 2 wonderful boys... lost myself i helped him find himself but i have remianed lost.. He was so into getting stoned, he would hardly pay attention to our children. Allowing them to sit there in thier dirty diaper for hours on end.. He isolated me from all my friends and most of my family. He was sooo inconsistant in retaining a job, i argued, pleaded and begged for a year and a half before he allowed me to have one. The whole time when i was working pregnant with my second son, he told me to quit and do what a good woman should do, be a mother and a good wife...after years of being stunted and cring myself to sleep, after i come home from work and the kids had not eaten and he asks so umm whats for dinner... I finally slipped into a deeper depression and reached out, there i found the courage to say I can't do it anymore!!!! He emptied my bank account, took all the savings and basically stalked me for the first week. Then i lost my hotel room because i couldn't afford it. The utmost hardest thing i have ever had to do was handing my 2 wonderful boys over to him because i had no where to go... after many many arguements... and bruises... i hid from him while missing my boys...Then after several major events.... my friend and i had to stay at his house... now he has followed me over to my mothers... says if i leave him he will kill himself... I don't know what to do.... i want my kids but i can't have him smothering and basically bitting at the bit to get back with me... I feel nothing for him but he is heads over heels in love with me.. What should i do...
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reader, pup1234  +, writes (22 October 2010):
 you and your kids are not safe, get out now, go to the police this minite, take the kids with you please do it now.
they will put you some where safe, sit in the station till
they do, a duty solicter it will not cost you anything,
please do as i say,YOU AND YOUR KIDS ARE AT RISK
i fear for you
good luck x
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (22 October 2010):
 Please contact this number to find a women's shelter close to you. You may also find an advocate to help you deal with custody of your children.
NATIONAL DOMESTIC VIOLENCE HOTLINE
Live Help 1(800)799-7233 - 24 hours
http://www.thehotline.org/
They should be able to get you a referral for some practical, local help.
I would suggest contacting the police to report the suicide threats; people who do this need help. Good luck.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (22 October 2010):
 Why haven't you involved the police yet?
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