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writes:I'm in a long distance relationship, and it's just so painful. Nearly all of my girlfriends friends are guys, and she is very close with some of them. I know they just want to get in her pants, but she doesn't notice their intentions. I love her, but i'm jealous and unhappy. Yet i can't let her go, or i'll be even unhappier. Are long distance relationships worth it? Have any of you guys been in a situation similar to the one that i'm in?
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reader, mystiquek + ♥, writes (11 January 2013):
 I have been in several long distance relationships. I am in one right now. They are extremely painful and certainly not for the weak or needy. You have to be a very strong trusting person to be able to withstand the loneliness that comes from not being able to be with the one that you love. They can work, and they can be worth it, if you both are honest, truthful, faithful and know that this is just a temporary situation. The longer they go on, the more chance that there is that things won't work out..someone will get bored, cheat, ect. You need to both know that there will be a point where the LDR will end and both of you work towards it. It can't just be "someday"..you need to have a set plan of when that is. Set regular times to talk, to see each other. I wish you all the best. I hope it works out for you.
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