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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:How do you tell how a man feels about you when he want talk? My relationship with my b/f has spanned 23 years. Not all toghether. We have a child. We had great sex. He was great with my older kids. I have pulled away because I dont know how he feels, he wont talk or express his feelings, introduce me to his family ...i felt offended. I did not want to waste any more time on him. I am now 45 and never married.Tried social clubs but dont seem to connect with others. Met someone at my hairdressers who I really like but he is friendly with my bf.The funny thing aboput it is that they are very similiar in personality and dress. I thought maybe I shd just keep hoping that things will change.Told bf that I am going on holiday having found out that he was planning to as well to the smae place hoping we can link up. It has cost me £5000 so hopefully it will be worth it.Any advice please.
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reader, Ginalolabridga + ♥, writes (8 July 2009):
 Wow 5 grand is a lot to spend on a holiday i hope it is worth it too!
You have been with him 23 yrs why now are you questioning the relationship and why he wont open up why not long before now?
I think you still have feelings for your boyfriend of 23 yrs deep down i think you know you are soul mates but something is causing you both to drift and if he really wants to be with you and you him then be with one another go on holiday and have the time of your life!
If he happens to be there too enjoy your holiday with him if thats what you want sometimes we have to accept some people cannot open up like we want them too, maybe there is other ways he can show his true feelings either way i think you both want to be together still and communication and compromise will go a long way in helping you both out here.
Gina
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