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writes:Hey guys and dolls, just discovered this site as I'm getting fed up with my sex life. I'm going out with this gorgeous blonde girl for 3 years now and when it comes to sex its over like that a few mins 5 at the very very most, even with foreplay or when she plays with herself I cum just like that and I can get over it but its no fun for her and I just want to be normal, I'm too shy to go to doc as well, anyone got any ideas what I should do, as soon as I do cum I can't get an erection for an hour or so? 27 male
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reader, bharat mehta  +, writes (19 December 2009):
 I just like to suggest you, to check following points.
1. You see ejaculation as early, and do not feel good, and want it to as late as possible. As a remedy, many male prefer masturbation before one or two hrs of their intercourse. So,it is common conclusion that more 'semen' cause early ejaculation, and as a remedy they reduce quantity of semen to achieve long time penetration in vagina. Is it ? and they also think that it is pleasurable..Is it?
2. Then please check the quality of sensual touch, quality of sexual tension, hardness and aliveness of erection, and as a result, pleasure you feel under different condition. First, with full semen stored for 15 days by avoiding ejaculation at all and with less quantity reduced with many ejaculations.
Please check on your own. There is no loss in such checking. You will arrive at certain conclusion on your own, without referring anybody's opinion. And, your conclusion would be objectively valid conclusion. It will be absolute truth.
Of course, do not forget your sex partner in such checking, check the vaginal condition and her opinion about above noted points.
See, there is a mathematical relationship between quantity and quality [thickness] of semen and quality of pleasure our 'mind' experience. Greater the quantity, greater the sensual pleasure. .
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reader, screener  +, writes (25 September 2009):
There is other ways then penetration to take care of her before you do . Get this book . She comes first ( The thinking man's guide to pleasuring a woman ) or a simaler book . This has changed everything I ever thougth and has helped in so many ways . Your woman will love you for it . And don't rush it , work with her .
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reader, pinkgoblin15 +, writes (24 September 2009):
 Well I would think masturbating like 2 hours before hand would still give you a boner and make it last a little longer in bed that helps my bf anyways.. And you might keep changing positions when your having sex. Do you only do one?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey all and thanks for advice. Firstly its 5 mins top and no more and it is with a condom all the time, but i get too excited too early and its horrible. I dont understand how masterbating would help. My girlfriend is away on hols and this is why im trying to sort it out.
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reader, pinkgoblin15 +, writes (23 September 2009):
If she's on birth-control and that's the only thing yall are doing then I would suggest using a condom because it takes a little longer to go off for guy when they use one. Btw like the other poster said there's nothing wrong with you your just average like every other guy. You could also try masturbating everyday..? I don't know if it would work but it might. Good Luck ^_^
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (22 September 2009):
Well the average for a guy having sex is about 5 minutes, so it may not be as bad as you think.
If you want, you could try masturbating in private without your girlfriend around, so you'll build your stamina up and you won't have to worry about your performance. If it does persist, you may have to see a doctor. Hope that's helpful.
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