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36-40,
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writes: My heart has never felt so soft like this before in a long time , The last time i felt like this was 5 months back when my ex broke up with me. last month she has been trying to get in touch with me, but i refused to reply all her mails. I also didn't sent her a birthday text on her birthday. i just feel its good to bridge the communication between us. But recently she deleted me from her facebook friends i don't know why , but am very surprised why she did that. Maybe because she found out i know her password. My heart now feel very heavy just like when the heartbreak happened. Should i call her up to see her, to talk or probably hangout somewhere, or i should just continue ignoring her. i found out about her current relationship via her facebook messages, i discovered the guy doesnt really like her, but she just continue pushing herself.Am so so confused on what to do
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (5 July 2013):
 I think you need to let it go.. it's over and done with and her unfriending you on facebook tells you she's moving on and you need to do the same.
I'm sorry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2013): If your goal is to get back together with her and she is seeing someone else now then I think you should not contact her. It sounds like things are probably going to end between her and this guy soon. When that happens there is probably a good chance she will contact you.
If you contact her while you are feeling so down about things having ended, but she is seeing someone else it doesn't seem like that is going to go well. That doesn't mean nothing can happen between the two of you in the future, just that if you contact her now you risk missing out on that happening just because the timing is off right now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2013): if its making you so sad, yes.
why would you torture yourself with sadness?
Just keep being friendly with her.
If she makes you happy then continue talking to her.
Its not like your going to marry her after talking.
or ask her to be your gf again.
You have the need to take things slow and see where things could go. Talk to her and see how you would feel afterwards.
Good luck!
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reader, Brokenv  +, writes (4 July 2013):
Your not confused. You are not in a relationship. You don't need to communicate in any form. Do NOT call her or hang out with her. You are not together and you both need to move on.
You are upset because you lost the connection of "seeing" her on FB. Maybe this is what she needs for her to move on.
You are doing the right thing. Move on. It only hurts for awhile. Time is on your side!
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