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Am I wrong for following my feelings?

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Question - (19 January 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 20 January 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Around this time last year I was messing around with this guy, that I thought I really liked. . . we finally made it offical in the beginning of the summer but after a week into our relationship I realized feelings wasn't true so it became a sexual thing, so say around Oct I began having feelings for his best friend. . . like I felt he was sweet. . . I told him what I was feeling and he felt the same. . . so since then me and been messing around like. I really like him and he says he feels the same.

We told his best friend but he didnt take it too well, he called me names and it hurt a lot but his best friend told me not to listen to him and he doesn't care about what anyone has to say because he isn't going nowhere. . . it's been almost 3 months now and me and him are still messing around and they are still best friends but every other day someone has something new to say bout us. . . I just want to know am I wrong for following my feelings?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2009):

no you arent wrong forget about what others have to say because theres always someone who has something negative so say. if you really like him and he feels the same way forget about everyone else.

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A male reader, yum yum Switzerland +, writes (19 January 2009):

yum yum agony auntNo you are not wrong for following your feelings because you are young and still not yet commited. You should make it clear that you don't want to pursue the relationship with your ex boy friend anymore. Do not play any attention to what other's are saying, you broke up with your ex because you no longer had feelings for him, and now you have feelings for his best friend and want to make out with him, peroid!. Take care!

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