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writes:Ok so I'm 15 female and me and this guy have been going on and off for bout 3 years. I love him a lot but the whole problem is the off part. He's 18 very sweet + sensitive not exactly cute but really who cares. However he has a lot of not so popular girls he's always flirting with to make me jealous. He also looks at porn but that doesn't bother me 2 much.Sometimes he can be a real jerk tho. Such as: my friend H is very sensitive about her body (she's overweight) and he always makes fun of her. My brother, love him to death, very funny and goodlooking, he always picks fights with.Sometimes we get mad at each other and break up but then its like I'm broken up. It feels like a part of me is missing until we get back together.I love him, he's my best friend and my boyfriend, very sweet etc. But when he breaks up for the final time w/ me, may or may not happen, what will happen to me??? It hurts even when I know he'll be back. We are currently off as of yesterday and I can't stop crying. I feel like I'm on drugs. How can I get UNaddicted off of him? And also I have never lost it like this with a guy. Is it normal to be like this?Please help :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2009): yes this is completely normal and relax take a deep breath. you 2 need to sit down and talk. you need to explain to him its very immature to pick fights with your brother and make fun of your friend. for one it isnt nice and its just very immature. 1 of you need to bend stop breaking up make this relationship last. fix the holes. you know you love each other so just critique the little things and everything will work out. love works in mysterious ways. let love find its way.
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reader, sheribaby38 +, writes (19 January 2009):
 hes sounds very immature. honey your 15 years old your going to have your heart broke a hundred times. its part of growing up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2009): Hi its me don't know how to verify it but I forgot to add, he has proposed before I told him I'd think about it and let him know when I was ready. well we've sorta kinda mutually agreed to get married eventually and I know I mean it but don't know how thatll work out now...
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2009): yes its normal to be like that. . .
and its no way to get unattach, when the time is right yull begin to depart yur self from him but for now just relax cuz he is gonna be bac but one thing wen he flirts dont get mad get even remember yur the most powerful person in the relationship. . . .
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