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Am I unusual for wanting to be dressed feminine ?

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Question - (24 August 2015) 5 Answers - (Newest, 24 August 2015)
A male United States age , *tevenPsBaird writes:

what do most women think of men who like to wear female clothing? I curiously started wearing bras and panties way back in the 1960's when due to not having enough room in the bedroom shared by my two older sisters some of their clothes were stored in my closet.

I tried to stop but the want to wear female clothing only got stronger .When I went to college I bought bras panties slips corsets wigs and a dress and I now wear breast forms garter belts and stockings plus skirts and dresses.

I would love to meet a women that would like to se me dressed up and have her do my makeup.

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A female reader, followtheblackrabbit Cayman Islands +, writes (24 August 2015):

followtheblackrabbit agony auntWell, from what I know, it's something most women are comfortable with. They're uncomfortable because for the most part, they don't understand. Me, I personally wouldn't care as long as it's not a sexual fetish. One of my male friends dresses up in women's clothing as an entertainer (actor) and loves it. He's straight, hilarious and good-looking too. Quite the catch! But for him, it's difficult to really be open with women since his Ex was quite mean when she found out. Anyway, try out a few forums, I'm sure there are support groups and other sites that could give you a better idea on how to find and interact with women who'd be accepting. Best of luck!

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A male reader, Fatherly Advice United States + , writes (24 August 2015):

Fatherly Advice agony auntAfter 50 years in this habit, I would think you know what "most" women think. They are suspicious, turned off, and prone to make a lot of baseless accusations.

I know that they all say that they want to know up front, to avoid surprise. I've never seen a good reaction to a cold confession.

Your best bet really is to find an online community. Women who accept this fetish / whatever are much rarer than men who enjoy it.

On the other hand women who wear men's boxers, and button down shirts, are praised.

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A female reader, WhenCowsAttack United States +, writes (24 August 2015):

I know women who would find it to be something they couldn't handle. I could deal with it I think as long as it wasn't totally out of control.

You don't mention whether this is a sexual thing for you. Do you just like it, or is it a turn on for you and something you want to incorporate into sex. There's a difference I think.

And I absolutely agree, do not hide it.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (24 August 2015):

Honeypie agony auntI think if you look for a place (website/community) where this is more common you might FIND such a woman.

But I DO think it's something you HAVE to be upfront about BEFORE getting "too" involved. Personally, I'd upset if my partner hid that from me in the initial stages of dating as I do not find men in women's clothes a turn on. Some do though, it's about finding one that does, not.. hoodwink someone into thinking there no "hidden depths" and then BAM out come the lingerie.

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A female reader, Ciar Canada + , writes (24 August 2015):

Ciar agony auntSo what are you asking of us?

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