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Hey there. My Name is Tayla, i'm not a qualified shrink, or therapist, I am just an ordinary person, but I have been through a lot, and I like to give my opinion on bad situations, and i'm always here for anyone if they need someone to chat too!

B/f didn't watch porn before he met me. Why does he watch it now?

Q.   My boyfriend didnt watch porn before he met me. I've been together for 3 years. However, I discovered that a few months ago, he watched porn and looked at sexual parts on naked women bodies to get arousal and to masturbated.We have sex regularly and ...

A.   23 April 2012: Hey there! It's a given fact that most men watch porn, whether they have girlfriends or not. If he's horny, and you aren't there, the first thing he will think to do is whack off. You shouldn't take this badly, you should just accept it, and u... (read in full...)

Right girl at the wrong time?

Q.   What does is mean when a guy tells you that you were the right girl at the wrong time? When's the right time? ...

A.   17 April 2012: It means he's an idiot, and wants to mess about having one night stands and sleeping with random people than settling down in a relationship. He means that, you're the kind of girl he can see himself settling down with, but he doesnt want to settle ... (read in full...)

How do I cope with my sexless marriage?

Q.   Alright, since my last question turned into a "what are you doing?" response page...I'll add more to my question. My wife and I have two sets of twins (11 yo girls, 7 yo boys) and we nearly have a sexless mariagge. She and I met when I was ...

A.   17 April 2012: You really do just need to communicate with her. There is no other way of letting her know how you are feeling. Take the time to sit her down and have a proper conversation about it, away from the kids, and at a decent time when she isn't busy, or ... (read in full...)

I betrayed the trust of my boyfriend in the bedroom. How can I find his forgiveness?

Q.   My boyfriend and I of 2 years have been experimenting in the bedroom over the past few months. We started with him, at my request, being more and more aggressive with me, i.e., holding me down. Then I asked for him to tie me up, which after a lot of ...

A.   6 June 2011: I understand completely what your going through as i experienced the same thing a few months ago with my boyfriend. I had also had him tied up, (minus the gag) and i was on top in control. just like you said, i had the tingling feeling, and was not ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend won't return the favor?

Q.   Hey, So basically what is happening is that my girlfriend won't return the favour. I go down on her to please her whenever he asks, but when I ask her to return the goods she says, I don't feel like it, or, when it's dark. I know penises aren't t...

A.   6 June 2011: I just have to say from a womans point of view you sound incredibly disrespectful. Just because shes not giving you oral your considering stopping giving her it? However i think there is a problem here. Just talk to her - ask her if theres s... (read in full...)

14 and like my cousin

Q.   i am 14 and really really like my cousin. whenever i go over her house i think about being with her and fanatsize about us being together.when i decided to act on my feelings and grabbed her butt i didnt get a clear message from her. how can i tell ...

A.   2 January 2011: Insestual relationships nearly always end badly. i think if you choose to act on this your life is going to be complicated. how do you think your family are going to react? this girl is related to you! i'm sure it's just a crush and you will in time ... (read in full...)

What is an appropriate age difference?

Q.   I have a question, I get hung up on age, is ten years too much of a difference. Is it wrong if the girl is ten years older like if she is 32 and he is 22?...

A.   11 December 2010: I always believe that age isn't an issue. If you are attracted to someone and believe that you could develop a long term relationship with him then age doesnt matter. Obviously like the others have said, there will be other issues such as friends, ... (read in full...)

Why do guys like anal sex with women?

Q.   Why do guys like anal sex with women? Is it because it feels different or a bit "dirty?"...

A.   9 December 2010: Generally anal sex is done a lot in porn films, and i think this is a huge thing for some guys. A lot of guys would love to re animate a porn film, and i think thats why most men try and get their partners to do it. plus because its tighter ... (read in full...)

Help!!! Scared of sex...

Q.   hey guys i have a really serious problem that is worrying me for a while.. i'm a girl and i'm afraid of sex.. yeah i'm a virgin but my fear is different than most girls'. It's like i'm not afraid of the first time because it's going to hurt, m...

A.   3 October 2010: Hi there! Your going through something a lot of girls go through. Its just general paranoia. You need to find someoe that your really comfortable with. Sex doesnt have to be rushed. If you tell the guy your with that your uncomfortable with foreplay ... (read in full...)

Doggie dilemma!

Q.   I am a 19 year old female and my boyfriend is 18. whenever we have sex, i enjoy the missionary position but as we start doing other positions (esp. dogggie) i just cant bear the pain on my lower stomach. Does anyone know about this? and is this the ...

A.   3 October 2010: I know exactly what your going through. I've been there before. The pain in your lower stomach is your boyfriend hitting your cervix, this can be very painfull and uncomfotable. You just need to tell him that this is painful for you and he should ... (read in full...)

Am I just repelling guys my age?

Q.   Hi everyone, I'm hoping you can help me out! I am so confused about myself and what guys think of me. I am a freshman in High school; I just turned 15. I've noticed something over the months that is really confusing. It seems like no freshman guys ...

A.   3 October 2010: There is NOTHING wrong with you! The only thing wrong with you is that fact that your saying this! Being curvy is what every girl dreams of. Your only 15, a you get a bit older you will attract older guys and guys your age. At this stage of puberty ... (read in full...)

Was this man just too kinky for me?

Q.   I was seeing this guy a while ago, we've known each other a long time but started to get more romantic lately. However he showed a side of himself that I never knew existed before. It was very strange he started 'joking' about scenes in porn ...

A.   3 October 2010: This man doesn't deserve your time. If he can't respect you then you shouldnt even bother! It looks to me as if he's just looking for a hook up. Or a relationship that is just going to be all about him and what he wants. Move on lovely, you sound ... (read in full...)

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