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writes:Well ill try to keep this as simple as possible but its gets alittle weird. So this girl starts texting me because she wants to go out with my best friend (who keeps on rejecting her) and wants my help. So i tried to help her out but my friend just didnt want to go out with her. Well in the mean time me and her became pretty good friends and i started to gain feelings for her. So i checked with my friend to see if was okay with it, he said he didnt give a fuck and wished me the best of luck. I left time for to get over my friend and tried to make my move. Well i thought everything was going good until she said that we couldnt go out because i was like a brother to her. Just a little background info, this was the first girl that i have every truly liked and who knows my feelings for them. So after that i was having a real tough time getting over. I was drinking just to help me fall asleep because i just couldnt get her out of my head and yes im fully aware that what i was doing was stupied and harmful behavior. I realized that and stop doing it. Now my friend knew all about this (expect the drinking)and was trying to help me. Then one day i said that if he want her he could fucking have her (still dont know why i said that) and then next thing i know hes dating her the next day. Now im a little mad at him but im not going to let this girl ruin a nine year friendship. So me and her kept in contact but it wasnt like what we had before. We went from texting all day everyday to twice a week and the conversation would last 20 minutes. This was perfectly fine with me because the distance gave me room to breathe and i started to feel better. Then she texted me complaining how we dont talk how we used to and i explained why it was like that and she got really sad. Now this conversation started to bring up all my old feelings so i told her we cant talk anymore. Then she got even more sad and said that she was crying. But i held my ground and deleted her off facebbok and deleted her number. sorry for the long story but my question is was i doing the right thing by not talking to her anymore. Im feeling a lot better but it seems shes falling apart.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2011): I would forget her. She told you she thought of you as a brother at one stage. She sounds a bit of a obsessive person and emotionally immature. I would move on and meet someone else.
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