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anonymous
writes: I am insecure in my marriage because my husband cheated on me before we got married. It was with a coworker of his. The last time we was out hanging out with the guys he spoke about her ta ta's. I shrugged it off because thats how men talk weather it be behind your back or in your face there not perfect... The other day I gave him a ride to and from work because his vehicle was broken down. When my husband came out of his work he and his coworker were walking side by side talking about i dont know what and she looked up and smiled at me... Then again the other day I just shown up at his work when he got off they came out together again. She was parked 4 cars down from him. The problem is I could not see anything because the huge trucks parked to were I couldn't view. I know they came out together because i saw her leave.. it was 5 minutes before they got off.. when i came around my husband was almost to the car and was very suprised to see me and instantly put his head through my window to kiss me.. Am I CRAZY FOR THINKING he has something going on with her? Not to many other of his coworkers were out of the building yet and they know he is married and they really like me... So anyone have any suggestions?? He talkn about this woman ta ta's then walking out together in the past he has cheated on me with a coworker? thank you
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (1 March 2011):
 Oh ok sorry my mistake. Well I guess the only real thing you can do is talk to him and tell him you are worried about this. Dont accuse him just tell him you are feeling slightly insecure, which is understandable because he has cheated on you before. But it may just be a coincidence that they walk out together after work. Go with your gut instinct.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionopps.. he cheated with a past coworker.. this lady is a new coworker he spoken of..
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (1 March 2011):
Well yes you do have the right to worry especially if he has already cheated on you with this woman. Im guessing you forgave him in the past though if you went on to marry him. It takes a lot of trust to forgive someone who cheated on you and I guess you will always have slight insecurities. But it was really inappropriate of him to be talking about her with his friends in front of you. I think all you can do is to ask him straight out if he is cheating again with her, and make up your own mind if he is being truthful or not.
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