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writes: I have recently had sex with a guy and I'm starting to really like him, however he is one of my closest friends ex boyfriend.. I told her I kissed him once at a party and she didn't seem bothered at all but she also told me, weeks after that, that she still likes him, but will never get back with him? What do I do.. Am I being a bad friend to her ? Should I move on from him?
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reader, Fari  +, writes (31 October 2014):
 Its good that you are concerned about how your friend would feel about you being involved with her ex boyfriend. Its always a tight situation to be in , you the friend being with your friend's ex. However, you mentioned that you told her that you kissed him and she didn't seem at all bothered but she still likes him right?If you are a bad or good friend is based on the "girl code". Its all about what agreements you and your friend have based on exes, boyfriend etc. Now I think your friend may have some feelings for her ex which is natural and you seem to as well. She wasn't bothered about the kiss but sex is another thing.. If I were you I would talk to her about your feelings about this guy and if you really love him then you can explain this to her and see what she thinksBest of Luck
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