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Am I addicted to masturbating? Will this cause problems for my health? And will it reduce my sexual desire?

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Question - (30 March 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 30 March 2011)
A male India age 30-35, *ife-life writes:

i want to know if a can masturbation habit reduce sexual desire in males? i am 27 virgin but i masturbate almost daily from age of 14 with watching pornography, but watching porns is voyeurism (peeping tom), which is one of the type of sexual perversion. i have never had a single girlfriend in my life till this moment i am writing, so i want to know that as masturbation relives sexual tension so due to this can my sexual desires becomes less day by day, due to regular/daily masturbation?

and i also pointed that my masturbation habbit is, i stop masturbation at the time of ejaculation, and repeat it again and again so my masturbation process contineous for averagely 2 to 3 hours daily, is this way of masturbation is hazardous to my health? i do that stop and start technique while masturbation to prolong desire during it i apply this way of masturbation frome age 14-27, at age of 14-17, my penis size and girth was really good, that time i belived that i have strong sexual characters, but as time passes the leangth and girth of my penis becomes less, as time passes,(is due to stop and start teqnique of masturbation), but i have still 100% sexual desire for females. but though i am 27 years of age i attract more and more towards mature womens age 25-40. is it any abnormal thing, because i have hardly attraction towards young girl. due to lowering size, girth and erection position i feel that i am not able to attempt sexual intercourse in good manner, the confidence of sex at the age of 15 is almost becomes half.

i also want to know that can i developed compulsive habbit of masturbation? and if i masturbate once a month is better and duration is hardly 2-3 minutes, and also avoiding pornography, then will my sexual desire increase? i want to know also want to know which process gives more and more sexual satisfaction masturbation or sexual intercourse with female? please answer this.

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A male reader, yankit United States +, writes (30 March 2011):

Not qualified to answer this but my opinion is: Too much of anything is too much..try a month of celebacy to see what happens.

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A female reader, TELLULAH United Kingdom +, writes (30 March 2011):

TELLULAH agony auntHi,

You really do need to get out more.

As for developing a compulsive habit! I would say you are already there.

Can you not find something to do, rather than sitting on your own and masturbating?

It’s not unusual for a guy to like older women, its pretty common actually. So no worries there.

As for the masturbating and the compulsive desire to keep measuring your Willy, well I think you need to see someone.

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy + , writes (30 March 2011):

CindyCares agony aunt - I am not a physician so you may want to check with one, but in all my life I have never heard or read that masturbation can make a penis's size decrease ! It's not a bar of sopa, that get consumed by frequent handling !

- You have ALREADY developed a compulsion ( and btw, you must be a lucky guy- who 's got the luxury to set aside 3 hours daily just for masturbation ?? )

- your masturbating habit won't affect at all your desire for women or your ability of coupling, but you might ( "might",not"will" ) develop problems with ejaculation. It may take you a very long time to come, or occasionaly you could be unable to ejaculate. That's because you have

got used to an intensity and modality of stimulation/friction that may be difficult to reproduce exactly during intercourse.

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