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Am I a tart?

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Question - (31 August 2011) 5 Answers - (Newest, 1 September 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I feel awful about myself at the moment .. can I ask your opinions, honest answers appreciated. I feel like a complete tart ... I met a guy a year ago we had a couple of nights fun (no sex) just stupid really I had recently become single and suppose was enjoying myself. He was separated from wife for over a year but then got back with her. The following year I met this guy we had a few dates and 1 kiss but no spark, he was a lovely guy but just not there ... then I did something awful and got with his friend who we had instant spark and his friend talked it through with him and told him how he felt about me so we decided to go for it and were together for a little while ... it didnt work out we just werent right for eachother ... anyway then I found out these 2 guys are friends with the first guy and his wife!! So what I am trying to say is I have been with (not slept with) 3 friends! I can only imagine what they must be saying ... does this make me a tart??

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2011):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank you so much for your replies I really appreciate it. You have all made me feel a lot better :-)

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A female reader, Coopervikki United Kingdom +, writes (31 August 2011):

sod what anyone else thinks thats my have done nothing wrong and im pretty sure they arent saying half the stuff you think they are, we always over analyse things and even if you had slept with them, if you are single, of age, using protection and you liked eachother, who has the right to call you a tart or otherwise?

I know what your getting at, completely! but you seriously have nothing to worry about. I think its hard nowadays because there are so many girls out their who actually do act like tarts and dont care, its hard for the decent ones to "not"get looked at in the same way as all the others! you have just proven your not a tart by worrying about it lol xx

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (31 August 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony auntso you've been friends with three men who happen to be friends.

no tart that I see.. not even a tartlette...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2011):

Are you a tart? No, you are not a tart.

Will people talk and maybe imply you are a tart? Yes that is a possibility. people talk, especially if they know each other.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (31 August 2011):

Of course you're not a tart. Your post was a bit confusing, but in the end all you're really saying is that you happened to date three men who happened to know each other. And you didn't know they they all knew each other. Don't worry about it. At all.

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