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Why am I getting "No" so often? What are the requirements to work as a Lap Dancer?

Q.   Hi, I need some advice as to if I'm just not good enough to get the work I want to do. I hate my job and so am leaving in few weeks and I've decided to lapdance for a while till I figure out what I want to do. I'm degree educated and can talk to p...

A.   31 August 2011: personally and this might sound harsh but i know of a few lapdancers, not well but know of them and each one of them is very rough around the edges, cant explain it, kinda dirty looking. Maybe thats what the clients want. That might be why you arent ... (read in full...)

Sex for two years and no orgasm! Help!

Q.   Well I have a problem, I've just finally started to feel sexy an confident in sex after having it for 2 years. But I don't ever climax, its pleasurable and everything but i've not once cummed... is there somethign wrong with me? Also I dont fi...

A.   31 August 2011: vibrator, that is all... (read in full...)

Is it normal to sleep with someone else on the stag/hen do?

Q.   Hi. Is it normal for a guy/girl to sleep with someone else on their stag/hen do? I've known people to do this but I dont think I agree with it. Would love to hear some opinions, not just from girls, guys too please! Thanks for reading. ...

A.   31 August 2011: um yes of course its wrong, doesnt mean people dont do it but i wouldnt be marrying someone if they were going to cheat on their stag or hen do. Its not right atall, if people want to shag about still they shouldnt get married to begin with... (read in full...)

Am I a tart?

Q.   I feel awful about myself at the moment .. can I ask your opinions, honest answers appreciated. I feel like a complete tart ... I met a guy a year ago we had a couple of nights fun (no sex) just stupid really I had recently become single and suppose ...

A.   31 August 2011: sod what anyone else thinks thats my motto....you have done nothing wrong and im pretty sure they arent saying half the stuff you think they are, we always over analyse things and even if you had slept with them, if you are single, of age, using ... (read in full...)

What do I do? I don't want to be the other woman

Q.   I met this gorgeous Irish guy in my first year of university and we had a casual relationship, which I am not proud to say was behind my boyfriend's back. I split up with my boyfriend, but the guy I was seeing then got a girlfriend and we lost ...

A.   31 August 2011: get away from him as fast as you can, ive been through a similar experience and it didnt end well for either of us, i fel in love with him, he told me he had fallen in love with me so i felt i had the right to fall and he would be their to catch me, ... (read in full...)

G/f talks to ex multiple times a day and now wants to stay at ex's house while doing a course!

Q.   Here we go: Dating a correctional officer for 1 1/2 years who is still friends with her ex (also a correctional officer-I am not). She recently moved into an apartment in the city but her in service is closer to her ex's house-it is a week long ...

A.   31 August 2011: tell her to jog on and find someone who appreciates you and doesnt want to hang around with her ex at every given chance, she sounds like a prat... (read in full...)

Should I give my friend ANOTHER chance?

Q.   hi i had a friend of 4 yrs .i thought her to be my best friend . but my friendship is going through some tense moments for past 1 and a half years. she is an extrovert whereas i'm reserved.. but she has always forced me to become an extrovert like...

A.   31 August 2011: i dont mean to be mean in any way but sometimes and in most cases it does take two, maybe theres something that you can both do to make the friendship work not just her. A friendship is like all relationships, you have to be flexible. I bet if you ... (read in full...)

I get emotional when I hear about child abuse.

Q.   Im 28 and a mother of a beautiful 16 month old baby boy. Every night before I fall alsleep i cry for all the beautiful little kids out there who are not cared for or are victims of child abuse. I cannot get my head round the fact that there are ...

A.   31 August 2011: Your not the only one, i suffer with this too! including animals! i dont have any advice apart from try and think about something else. I have always been very empathetic and compassionate and when i had my son who is now 4 it heightened! dont know ... (read in full...)

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