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writes: How can I be as hot as a porn star? I already act the part - well, no, I don't ACT, I really do enjoy sex and I'm very open to everything my boyfriend likes or wants to try. I never say no until I've tried it (except for threesomes, I wouldn't like getting a third party involved in our sex life). I swallow, do anal, enjoy different positions, do it with the lights on, in public places, etc.I want to look the part, though. I know guys are very visual, and I guess if I looked a tad better, it'd bring that extra special for him! My questions are basically these:- Small boobs: I have small boobs, while my boyfriend prefers large ones. How important would boobs be in the equation? Are implants a bad idea? I've always fantasized about implants, but I'm too much of a chicken.- Weight: Currently I weigh 132 lbs, and I'm 5'5. I want to go down to about 120. Would that be bad? I tend to store more fat in my lower body.- Butt: if I work out, can I get a bigger, rounder butt? I have a wide butt (because I have wide hips), not flat but not big. If I do weight training for my butt, can I increase its size or will it only firm it? I would really like to add size. I want to tone up the rest of my body too, but I'm especially concerned about my butt.- Cellulite: Any home treatments to decrease its appearance? You can see it when I'm standing up only. I would like to get to the point where you can only see it when pinching the skin. I know it's impossible to make it go away completely. I just want to decrease its visibility.I know I won't look exactly like a porn star, I just want to make my body look really, REALLY hot! I wouldn't want to have a creepy porn star face anyway. I know porn stars use a lot lighting, angles and make up tricks to hide their imperfections, and I know I won't look perfect. I just want to be hotter for my boyfriend, and porn stars are the references for hotness, since guys like watching them.I think it'd be good for both of us: for him well, what a treat to have sex with an incredibly hot girl and for me it would be a confidence booster and would make me less inhibited I guess, therefore making me enjoy sex more!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2010): You are so concerned over your looks that you are missing an important part of the equation....guys jerk over porn, they marry real women that have brains, personality and hopefully can cook LOL. What do you do outside the bedroom?
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (4 February 2010):
 I'm just curious - has your boyfriend indicated in any way, shape or form that he desires you to change? It sounds like you guys have amazing sex and he's got to recognize that he's one lucky guy to have such an open-minded and adventurous girl! You sound gorgeous, the perfect weight and size. I'm sure that your boyfriend loves having sex with YOU, not this ideal that you have in your head.
If you want to go to the gym and take an aerobics class, okay. But a) you don't need to, and b) that's fine, no shame in exercise, but I wouldn't reconstruct your body to fit some "look" that you assume your boyfriend wants. Most guys really don't care for fake breasts. There's a lot of room for mistakes, and if you've never seen a butchered set of boobs... well, I have and it will turn you off from boobs jobs forever. Frankenboob. Scarring is a very real consequence, and pretty common. Not only can that go wrong, but fake boobs FEEL weird. (Yes, I've felt my share too. I used to work in a strip club.) Like rubbery rocks. My husband has had sex with a girl with fake breasts and he said it was the most disappointed he ever was. They felt really fake, and she clearly didn't get any pleasure from them.
http://www.breastimplantinfo.org/what_know/bihlthcomp.html
This was interesting...
http://www.paulkienitz.net/no-implants.html
This is a pretty biased website (but still interesting), so I recommend doing more research, but please look up all the information before doing anything for sure!
As someone who worked around nudity, I'll tell you that very few guys find fake breasts sexy. At least, sexier than natural breasts. Talk to your fella about it, consider the consequences and the financial dent it will make in your bank!
You sound like one hot mama, love yourself and your enthusiastic attitude and keep that up. THAT is what makes you sexy, not all this superficial stuff.
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reader, girl from bristol  +, writes (3 February 2010):
implants are your choice exercise will tone your bum certain creames you can use for celiute exercise will help you to lose weight
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reader, BettyBoup +, writes (3 February 2010):
 You sound like you have a great body. Hell, I'd love to be 132 pounds and only have cellulite when I stand up. Also big boobs sag with age. I have big ones and they already droop in my 20s, consider yourself lucky, you'll be perky for years. Everyone has a fundimental body shape. You cannot change who you are and how you look completely. Not everyone is gonna have a perfect model body. Plus different people find different bodies sexy. In porn there are girls of all different shapes and sizes. If your worried about cellulite all you can do is work out. Try cycling or running, they're really good for your bum and thighs. If you work hard you will get your 'porn star butt'.At the end of the day you sound like you have a healthy shape body and your boyfriend loves having adventurous sex with you. He obviously thinks you are REALLY hot. So if you want my advice, stop worring about changing your body and just enjoy what you have and be proud.Good luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2010): lmao,, for me you are taking steps to look LESS like a porn star!!
Boobs normal to smaller just fine as they are..
Butt bigger??? absolute turnoff !!
Weight,, losing a few pounds is ok, don't go enimic!
Cellulite: use some cream and/or tan some is ok..
WOrk out be fit, find a healthy weight, dress provoctively (not street walker slutty) Most importantly feel "hot" for yourself, and confident in who you are.
(b/f's kinda an idiot if your description is what he thinks is the porn star look)
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reader, xxxsabsxxx +, writes (3 February 2010):
first of all you dnt need to lose weight, you are healthy for your age and this would only cause complications. second of all, ask your bf about the bboob jobs, because a lot of guys would prefer smaller boobs to fake boobs. plz stop worryin about the way you look because to me you dnt sound like you need to change at all xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2010): It sounds like you already are.You need to buy a mirror.End of story.
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