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writes:o.k. so here is the thing I'm completely invisable to my family. They don't care what i want or what i say they just go on about their lives like i don't exist and i don't know what to do. I extremely close to lashing out but i don''t want to do that and the only person on this earth that seems to notice me is my fiancee and sometimes he doesn't even see me. what should i do?J.R.
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reader, truly_unique  +, writes (28 December 2007):
if you feel like ur not being noticed then get out ther and be noticed!
im not saying to do something stupid but talking to them is a great way to get noticed. try to spend one on one time with people of your family individually and try giving them individual attentions too. you may find they feel invisile too but going out ther and spending more time with them is a great way for them to notice you
good luck xx
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reader, Fairy_Lu  +, writes (27 December 2007):
 Why dont you tell them how you feel and if you cant do it face to face write them all letters telling them how you feel and see if it changes, nobody likes to feel invisible perhaps they dont realise what there doing and how there making you feel
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (27 December 2007):
 Many people are or have been in your situation. All you can do is keep going. I know that feeling nobody notices you is awful, but then you have a life to live and you can't stand still in that situation. At least you have a loving fiancé who does care about you. Work on that relationship. It will improve and will bring more love and care to your life.
Take care.
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