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A question for girls...have any of you ever masturbated like this??

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Question - (24 January 2008) 20 Answers - (Newest, 29 January 2013)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I have always wondered if anybody else has ever masturbated this way or if it was just me. What I used to do a lot (I rarely do it this way anymore) was to prop myself completely off the floor by holding myself up with my hands and leaning over the edge of the footboard at the end of my bed, the sink in the bathroom, or some other furniture that had an edge high enough for me to pull myself up, with my body weight pressing my clit/pubic area just over the top of the edge.

My legs and feet would be dangling off the floor and I would maybe rock a little bit, but other than that, I didn’t move very much. Most of the sensation was caused by having the area just above the tip of my clitoris (the part covered by skin and pubic hair rather than the tip of the clit itself since that would be too sensitive) pressing against the furniture. I usually did this while wearing clothes, although it was often just panties or pajama bottoms if I was doing it on the end of my bed or the sink in the bathroom. Sometimes I would be completely naked in the bathroom (right before or after a shower), but would spread my towel over the sink so there was something soft there.

I discovered this by accident when I was 6 or 7 when I leaned over the side of the armrests on a recliner my parents had in the living room while playing and noticed that it felt really good. I had my first orgasm this way in the summer before eighth grade. I continued to get myself off this way right up until I went off to college (I am 23 now).

My orgasms doing it this way were really strong and I would usually get off in 2 or 3 minutes. That is a good thing because this technique is kind of tiring plus you get red indent marks on your hands from holding yourself up (they go away after a couple of minutes though!).

Have any of you ever done it this way and if so, what have you done it against (bed, sink, something else? Did/do you do it exactly the way I described or kind of different? Have you had an orgasm while doing this and, if so, how long did/does it usually take to orgasm? Just curious. I hope this isn’t too personal.

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A female reader, margaritak26 United States +, writes (29 January 2013):

Wow I am so happy that I found this site because I used to masturbate this way since I was younger.

I sort of switched now to doing it with my finger but its definitely way easier with an edge of a table.

Its really wonderful to see that other females have discovered it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2012):

i was wondering if anyone else did this too. I discovered it at a very young age too. lol, thanks for posting. :P

it's a different type of orgasm... i think it's called clit-orgasm... I humped a rolled up towel before too... i pretty much made out with it lol. man... this is strange stuff. X|

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2012):

This is so funny... I thought I was the only one, I guess not. For me it what the same as some of you girls, I just suddenly felt that sensation and was addicted. When I was at school I used to rock back and forth on my chair and the feeling was amazing. Now I still do it 10 years later, now I place a soft rolled up towel over the corner of a chair and rock back and forth. I'm not lying when i say it's AMAZING. It's the best orgasm you could ever wish for. Sometimes i get so carried away the whole street can probably hear me, sex with anyone else doesn't feel the same I enjoy it more alone.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2012):

I'm so glad I found this. I have been doing this since a young age too and always felt weird and alone like I was the only one who did this. I also have a hard time with actual intercourse as it doesn't give the same results. I'm just happy to know I'm not alone. :)

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A male reader, humping mad United Kingdom +, writes (16 April 2012):

I remember I came home one lunch time and went up stairs to change, on my way up i stopped on the landing and i could see some of our bedroom furniture on the landing,it seems that my wife was doing her monthly room move around, but i couldn't believe what i saw, my wife,naked, struggling with this big wardrobe, and i thing she was enjoying it too, she was humping it while she was trying to move the wardrobe over to where the bed was. It sure got me going,but at the same time,it was the first time iv'e seen my wife behave in this way,so i said,hiya, i see you been busy, she said oh yes,i thought i'd give the bedroom a slight make over,but even though she knew i was there,she kept on struggling with it, so i asked do you want me to help,she said please hun!, with that i thought i strip off and join her,because she turned me on so much seeing what she was doing,we ended up moving this wardrobe together,in the end we both ended up humping it. My wife and i do it on a regular bases around the house now,don't know why but it seems we both boosted our sex life a little.

So we are now wondering if any women experienced this,or is it just us in the world that's odd?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2012):

I do this against sinks and counters, sometimes the back of chairs or a couch, have since I can remember. Probably since I was about three years old and had no clue what I was doing. Basically, I can't do it any other way. I've never even invested time to try, since this method usually works anywhere from less than a minute to under 5. I've never told friends about it since they always go on about how it always takes so long with shower heads or rubbing or whatever... it all seems too hands on and long - my way is almost effortless and I never even get undressed. I've tried fingers and objects and pillows bunched up but they just don't have the right angle, or the right pressure... I don't know. As long as the orgasm is the same (I assume it is... I have no point of reference) then I'm not going to change. I still can't help but feel the odd one out, and I don't know why nothing else works, I can feel the build up but nothing but a hard surface is going to give release.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2012):

I do the same way. I use the corner of an end table and I kinda squeeze my legs together as I do it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2011):

oh my god i have also been doing it since i was young and i can also do it 4 or 5 times after the first one ! i always always thought i was the only person that did it and it was weard but i am so glad i read you question ! just shows what the internet can show you.

Thank you

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2011):

my wife does this exact same thing. she loves it and gets off within a minute or two. she will do it for two orgasms and then she is done. she picked out our current bed for the soul reason of the low corner post so she could masterbate. nice to know there is someone else with this same talant.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2011):

I sure have and just like humper, I wish I could do this with another woman on the other arm rest of my sofa. I have a big steady four cornered table in my home and wish that I could do this with three other women, one on each corner of the table. I am straight, married and have two children but something about this is just so incredibly enticing.

The first time I did this was when I was eleven years old. My friend Jenny invited me over her house after school. Her mother used to work until 6:00 and her baby sitter was sick that day. We did our homework and then she asks me if I wanted to see something that she loves to do and maybe I would want to. I watched her fold a small towel and put it on the corner of the kitchen table and climb on top of it and swing her legs in the air and breath and moan. I was a bit nervous but then she asked me to do the same. It was kind of hard in the beginning but she told me to position myself where my weight was straight on my private and took my feet off the floor, I could not believe the feeling that I was experiencing. I now do this a few times a week. Thanks Jenny, where ever you are.

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A female reader, Humper Argentina +, writes (20 August 2011):

Oh yeaaahhh...I have masturbated like that since I was a little girl, more than 40 years now. I prefer a table, chair or mattress corner, but if I can find none, I do it exactly as you described it. A hard corner, padded with something is quicker though. It takes me less than a minute for me to orgasm that way. I also need the dangling too, if I want a strong orgasm. I am so used to that, that I run to a table as soon as I feel the urge. I am a bit addicted if you ask me, since I do it on a daily basis, sometimes three times a day. I have been checking on this subject only recently. Before the internet, that was not something easy to discuss. Now, I know that there are other women out there who orgasm the same way. One thing that adds to it for me is to watch another woman doing the same thing, but in a natural way. Porno sites don't do anything for me. Now if I can watch the real thing, I can come in no time just by watching an orgasming face from a girl who is doing the same thing. I have used the brim of stairs, the side of the bathtub, the side of a table or counter, the washing machine and so on. When I was about twelve, a young girl moved in to my apartment building, and we shared those moments in the staircase close to the elevator. We did it until her parents moved out. We used to meet every afternoon after school and grind that surface for a while. I knew her expression the moment she was about to orgasm, and I used to let myself go exactly the moment she rolled up her eyes and put a zombie like expression, and kep it for about 30 seconds or so. Anyway, thank you for reminding me of that experience!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2010):

Wow never knew anybody else does this too! I have been doing in since about 6 and stumbled upon it in similar circumstances to how you did. However now i have a boyfriend of 2 years and we have sex regularly and i dont know if i'm orgasming or not? It feels nothing like the table and i started off just faking it as he was my first sexual partner but nowi dont want to share these feelings with him as it has been so long i dont want him to think i have been faking it this long so dont know what to do. Sexual intercourse just doesnt have that attention on the clit like the table does. I do it really frequently and have never maturbated "normally" so am wondering if this is my problem? I read online and people say just relax etc etc but none of it is as fast and responsive as the table but i want to be able to have good orgasms with my boyfriend. Any reccommndations? Do you think i should stop masterbating on the table? thanks

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A female reader, spreco United Kingdom +, writes (24 February 2010):

Oh my gosh! I am in such shock to know that other girls get off on table corners too. I thought I was weird. Most girls use objects or fingers, but I love those table pointy corners more then anything. I have been doing it that way for 30 years, it feels great, and it get's me off quickly and I don't have to be naked so no one catches me. But if you want to hang on and rub longer then you can do it naked and enjoy longer. I love the pressure on my clit.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2008):

Oh, yes, this is exactly the same way I do it! But I prefer hanging on corners of tables, fully dressed, and just maybe swinging a little back and forth. It is a great way to get off quickly, especially when you get really horny. You could do this against any hard corner - washing mashine, any table, corners of wooden chairs.

I used to have some hot reading or pics on the table in front of me while getting "there".

I do it the "normal" way too, but this is the way I started to masturbate, and I still do it regularly.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2008):

Yeah I've done that kind of thing, I've also used a shower head. That was really good because you get the bigger surface area covered with less effort and the water is a plus :P

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2008):

Hmmm, yeah I guess I have my own less-complicated version of that, basically dry humping a clumped up blanket...it's usually quick and almost always reliable, but I don't find the "orgasms" to be intense or satisfying. I wouldn't even really consider them orgasms, just mini climaxes. But I can't really climax any other way, not without a lot of time and effort and there's usually too much of an emotional block, so whatever, I say do what works and dont trip on questions of normality.

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A female reader, birdynumnums Canada +, writes (26 January 2008):

birdynumnums agony auntI guess this is cheaper than dial-up phone sex! Perhaps we can hook-up all the porn hubbies and the ones who are doing on line searches for girls with this one question?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2008):

Hi girl I have made it too i few times...im use to do it on the side of the sofa... where we put the arm...it feels really good...of course the sofa has to be firm..but I dont need to have my feet hanging im ok even if they touch the floor

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (25 January 2008):

DoubleM agony auntI'm a man, so I apologize for intruding on your girl talk, but I'm aware of many ladies who have done this in variations. Some gals get quite a buzz from riding bicycles or horses.

Some girlfriends used to enjoy riding my knee and lower thigh bone.

Pressure against the vulva, sometimes even against the clitoris more directly when orgasm is imminent, is a common (almost) necessity for female orgasm.

This is a major stimulus in cunnilingus, when an experienced man uses his tongue flat against her clit and presses firmly downward on her mons pubis (the mound above the clitoris) with the palm of his hand as she nears ecstasy.

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A male reader, Dr Vendetta United Kingdom +, writes (24 January 2008):

Dr Vendetta agony aunti have read this... 12 times now. and i'm having the most amazingly hard time trying to work out what the hell you're doing lol.

i just can#t quite picture it : /

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